sanlucascerveza Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Is it a good idea to keeP doing all the things you did to initially get her and keep doing them throughout the relationshiP and to not let up? Some would call me a bad boy and that's how i acted in the beginning. Having her chase me, do things for me etc. but now since we are "in a relationship" my gut is telling me to be more romantic, sweet and basically more boyfriendy. Basically changing who I was when we first dated. Thoughts ?
sanskrit Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Be romantic, sweet, and expect her to reciprocate by doing things for you also. No need for it to be either or. There should not be a scorecard, but there is a give and take. As long as there is lots of give and take on both sides, things should be fine. There is a certain kind of aura that a man projects letting his SO know that though he loves her and loves having her in his life, she will never "be" his life, he could be happy without her, has options, and expects the same level of good treatment towards him that he gives to her. The trick is figuring out how to moderate that aura so that insecurity doesn't drive her crazy and cause her to start acting out on it.
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