XxBleedXxLikeXxMeXx Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Been awhile since I posted on here, but awhile back I made a thread detailing my break up with an ex, whom I dated for over 2 and a half years. Well after 4 months after our break up we had talked off and on, and the guy she left me for well... left her, but she claims she left him. While this was going on, I tried to be there for her, because I still felt I could make things right or whatever, and when I tried one last time to tell her how I felt, she said she had thought about working things out as well but she said she just wanted to leave things in the past and focus on herself but that maybe she just needed time to figure things out between us. But yeah she ended up getting with a second guy like a week later who she started talking to while her current relationship was in the process of ending with the other guy. Well I had that feeling something was going on and confronted her about it, she got mad and after a few words were exchanged, I told her how I knew she left me to date someone else and that she couldn't deny it. Well at this point she got really defensive and accused me of never being there for her and that she couldn't believe she put up with me for as long as she did, and at no given time did she acknowledge me knowing her real reasons for leaving me. We stopped talking after that night. In the end I came to the realization I seriously needed to move on, and began to date other people. When my ex found out about it she got very upset from what I was told, and from what a relative told me she posted something on her facebook along the lines of "It's amazing how fast someone will turn their back on you when they don't get what they want." Then I was told she went onto say I was just being mad and not wanting her as a friend because she was dating someone else, and then told her friend's that she told me that she said from the start she didn't wanna work things out with me and that I must have heard it "differently". Well about a month later, after we went NC my ex contacted my current girlfriend and said some b/s about how she was happy for us, and that we should hang out with her on her birthday, and then went so far as to say that we should all go on a double date. I told my g/f to say no, and then she went around and told my g/f that she couldn't put up with my S*** anymore. It's been about two months now and I haven't said anything to her nor has she said anything to me. But from time to time I have heard from different people that she is still talking S*** about me whenever I get brought up. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Now here's my question, I would like to know if anyone on here can explain to me why my ex is acting this way? I no longer have any desire to be with her, but I do want to know why she would get this mad that I finally began to date other people after four months into our breakup, and then go so far as to try and get my g/f to agree to all of us hanging out with her and her new b/f. Which by the way we don't like each other, and it was like that way before him and my ex began dating.
RareBreed Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Hmm.. 1. She probably still has some feelings for you. Or... 2. She's upset that she no longer has a hold on you. You were there for her before.. Now you're gone.. & she's in a downward spiral. Sucks for her! From what you described, this ex is really childish. Continue with your current relationship, & keep ignoring her & her drama.
Author XxBleedXxLikeXxMeXx Posted May 27, 2011 Author Posted May 27, 2011 From how it's been, I would say it could be either one.. and I got the childish vibe after I found out she still talks to my sister as well, and she made a big deal to my sister that she thought she was pregnant with the dude she's been seeing for like 2 months now. My sister didn't wanna tell me because she thought it would piss me off or something but I heard from other friend's because she pretty much told everyone. But when she found out she wasn't, she told my sister about it and acted as if it was a huge disappointment. My sister told me though after the supposed pregnant thing, my ex hasn't tried to talk to her anymore.
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