grecian Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 To all the ladies out there: what do you think of men looking at other women even when they are in love with their gf? Does it bother you and if it does, do you tell him about it? And i'm not talking from a jealousy perspective; i just don't understand what's the point in all of that when you're in a relationship. I just don't think it's appropriate.
vsmini Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 As of now this isn't a problem in my relationship - some people are just so damn beautiful though - and you just have to look. NOT oogle but look. It's more out of awe than disrespect or wanting to end a relationship with your SO for the person that just walked by you. If my BF ever became a serious ooogler I would be bothered by it and tell him. He could either cut it out and respect my wishes or I would say goodbye. A couple looks here and there are natural but turning around and staring...hell no.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I am bothered when the guy is ogling, rather than just glancing, but I have only experienced the ogling with one guy -- and this guy was definitely the "grass is greener" type. I told him it bothered me, and he offered to stop, but it's not my business to police someone's behavior. But I was relieved when I broke up with him that I didn't have to deal with his rude behavior anymore.
FlowerGirly Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I don't mind if my bf looks at other women. I have caught it a few times and I think its funny. I'm 100 percent straight but if a beautiful woman walks by, sometimes I will even admire the beauty. I think its human nature.
Eve Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 He would look but I would probably comment too as I am not intimidated by other women. I see beauty as something to admire. Ogling is different. I would think him a bit of a wanker if he was like that. Take care, Eve x
tigressA Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 Just a glance here and there doesn't bother me. Outright staring/ogling and/or obnoxious comments piss me off.
donnamaybe Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 My guy has commented on a couple women when talking to me and sometimes says something like, "She's a really pretty gal," or words to that effect. He isn't dead, so I do expect he will notice if a gal is pretty. Doesn't bother me in the least. If he were to do the whole eyes popping out of his head, tongue lolling out of his mouth and landing on the floor thing, it would MAJORLY piss me off!
FlowerGirly Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I think some women are very intimidated by other women and that is why they get so angry about this topic. Its human nature and if you can't accept that, you should date a blind man.
O'Malley Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I'm fine with a mild amount of window shopping on your own time, I do it and I'm sure my boyfriend does it as well. Any kind of ogling/leering/comments is pathetic --the worst are the guys who behave that way in front of their wife and kids.
donnamaybe Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I think some women are very intimidated by other women and that is why they get so angry about this topic. Its human nature and if you can't accept that, you should date a blind man. Who is angry?
collegeguy_24 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 My current GF doesn't quite like if I glance, but she accepts it because its a part of life. Doesn't help she is incredibly insecure. My ex didn't mind at all, sometimes she'd even check other women out to. I don't ogle though, just a glance is usually enough, no need to stare and act like an idiot.
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