nordic Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Don't feel bad about having sex with this guy, if he likes you and is interested, sleeping with him early won't change anything. If he doesn't contact you, than he wasn't serious to begin with. Thats one thing it took me years to understand- Having sex too early or late won't change anything if a man is truly interested. I slept with my bf on date 3, the second week. true, it will not change much given that she gets together with him. it will change things if she doesnt and she wants a real relationship in the future. whats her future husband gonna think about her going home to guys she doesnt know, getting drunk there, carried into the bedroom druk, and then letting the guy inside her. not many men want to be married to that. unless we did the carrying:)
nordic Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 He just texted. Said we should try it again while sober. So I guess the problem is alcohol? Not jerking off too much? I also have a guy friend who over-shares when he's drinking, and he says that he prefers jerking off to sex and can't have an orgasm with a girl. That scares the crap out of me. Does this happen to a lot of guys? btw my friend is not really a skank, she's just had this kind of experience before, where I haven't. Like get too drunk and end up having sex. a girl who likes to get drunk and then end up having sex over and over with men she doesnt know is the definition of a skank. yes, she is a skank. wish i new her:)
sanskrit Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Sounds like you're setting yourself up to be FWB, not dating. Agree with the above. You are setting yourself up for disappointment if you really want a relationship with this man. He has nothing invested at this point and people don't value what comes easily. Moreover, it will be difficult to change the tide by stepping back in light of him likely expecting you to come to his house and have sex relatively willingly going forward.
nordic Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Agree with the above. You are setting yourself up for disappointment if you really want a relationship with this man. He has nothing invested at this point and people don't value what comes easily. Moreover, it will be difficult to change the tide by stepping back in light of him likely expecting you to come to his house and have sex relatively willingly going forward. he is definetly expecting that. on the other hand, if he likes the sex they may still get together at one point. she has nothing to loose at this point. she already slept with him too fast, so playing the virgin game is a bit late:) and trying to keep him at a distance now would only be weird. plus, what is at risk at sleeping with him again? she already increased her number by one.
Recommended Posts