joshextreme Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 Well.. my ex and I are getting back together. 2 weeks after prom she texted me saying things will never work out for either of us if we just don't talk. She told me what I had been saying for the past 4 months! grr. Anyways I decided fine ill talk to you for awhile but if things didn't go the way I wanted them then I was backing out. A few days later we started flirting and things kinda happened. We then decided to sit down and talk about what took us down the first time. Things seem to be getting better. We trust eachother so much more because we finally see what was upsetting us before. I know I probably broke some rules but I don't care. I got my girl back by leaving this site and doing things for myself. Not bashing this site at all though, this site has been my biggest motivation to do anything. If you can build up your confidence after a break up you get to a point where you don't need the advice and you can do things for yourself, go for it! I'm glad that when my ex came back to me I decided to just go with it. I knew I was puting my self at risk for another heartbreak but hey.. anyone can break your heart. It was worth the shot in my eyes. Some things happen in conventional ways. But conventional is so rare from what I've seen. Not all people are the same. Things will happen in the most unconventional ways for people and once you see that you can see that anything is possible. Anyways, I just wanted to comeback and say thank you to everyone who's given me support when I needed it the most. If it wasn't for everyone here I would still be the immature josh doing stupid things trying to win my ex back.
VJohnson32 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 Why do you all bash the users on here constantly? Most of them are mature and know how to handle a situation and give a good advice. You and your ex have been playing mind games for 4 months, you are trying to make her jealous by taking a friend of hers to the prom and shes doing childish games as well. The reason why you dont see an eye to an eye with the some of the people on here is because they are a lot older and wiser than you with lots of past relationship experience. High school flings rarely make a happy ending. Congrats though, if it makes you sleep good at night, thats what matters.
Author joshextreme Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 Why do you all bash the users on here constantly? Most of them are mature and know how to handle a situation and give a good advice. You and your ex have been playing mind games for 4 months, you are trying to make her jealous by taking a friend of hers to the prom and shes doing childish games as well. The reason why you dont see an eye to an eye with the some of the people on here is because they are a lot older and wiser than you with lots of past relationship experience. High school flings rarely make a happy ending. Congrats though, if it makes you sleep good at night, thats what matters. I wasn't bashing anyone. I'm grateful for everyone on this site. I wouldn't be who I am right now without everyone here
PelicanPete Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 Hey I'm glad you're doing well Josh. Whats important is that you're happy! I'm glad you chose to take matters into your own hands, in the end you're the one that knows the situation the best. You're living life, and not letting life live you. I hope second times a charm for you and that everything works out. You have a better idea of what to look out for with her so hopefully you won't get hurt if things don't turn out. If you ever need some help feel free to post or even PM me. Good luck to you.
Kodo Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 (edited) I sincerely wish you the best Josh. I honestly hope that everything works out but more importantly I hope SHE has changed. I got back with an ex after a year. I personally felt I had change. Certain things crept up though just like last time. It wasn't my behaviour. It was hers. My response was similar, because her attitude made me in different. Days later she ran away just like th e first time. Switched into **** head party mode like last time. And here I am wondering what I could have done differently. And that's the thing, just like others have said, you don't break up over **** like this. SHE is the one who never changed after all this time. When we BOTH had problems she still found a way just like the first time to blame it all on me and convince herself it's my fault and run like the ****ing coward she is. So be very careful... if she hasn't changed, you won't do much to change her. It'll be fresh at the start, she'll go back to herself and I cantell you now it is no-where near easier than the first time. Edited May 28, 2011 by Kodo
coltsfan1 Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 I sincerely wish you the best Josh. I honestly hope that everything works out but more importantly I hope SHE has changed. I got back with an ex after a year. I personally felt I had change. Certain things crept up though just like last time. It wasn't my behaviour. It was hers. My response was similar, because her attitude made me in different. Days later she ran away just like th e first time. Switched into **** head party mode like last time. And here I am wondering what I could have done differently. And that's the thing, just like others have said, you don't break up over **** like this. SHE is the one who never changed after all this time. When we BOTH had problems she still found a way just like the first time to blame it all on me and convince herself it's my fault and run like the ****ing coward she is. So be very careful... if she hasn't changed, you won't do much to change her. It'll be fresh at the start, she'll go back to herself and I cantell you now it is no-where near easier than the first time. Listen to this advice it is 100% correct!!!
Kodo Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Kodo, How old was your Ex? She'll be 24 at the end of this year.
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