diablodude64 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 So tonight I got in an argument with my girlfriend about certain clothing that made me uncomfortable, especially since she is a religious girl, and that turned in to a big ordeal about how I should be fine. So I decided to stop and just say, "I can't make you do anything and I won't, but I am going to go for a walk" just to chill out a bit. Anyways I walk out the door and she walks out to her porch thing and smiles because apparently she had a change of heart about what I told her, and then says she wants to climb down. It's a 2 story building and she was at the top and I told her to stop, but she wanted to anyways. Finally she decided to just go down the stairs and she comes up to me and I call her a chicken **** jokingly and her facial expression completely changes and she gets pissed. I was completely joking but long story short she decided to walk back into her house. I walk back a few minutes later and she get's pissed and says it's not alright for me to talk like that to her, I do kind of regret it but it seems odd to me that she has called me a dick before when pissed off and I said what I said jokingly but she can't just see the humor. Anyways, I told her I wanted a break and walked out. I kind of do feel like a dick for saying that because I normally don't say stuff like that, but now that we are apart, I still feel like we could have saved something good if I would have just said I really didn't mean it for her to take it like that. Anyways I feel like I should tell her, but I don't want to seem like I am desperate because I know we needed the break for other reasons, and I am in no hurry but I don't want her to have negative thoughts about me. So what's the prognosis?
surfrider4284 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 Personally, I could never take a girl that would get so pissed over something so small. If things like this are a problem now, imagine 10 years down the road. get out while the getting is good.
Author diablodude64 Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 I don't like it personally. My dad always said, it take 2 years to get to know someone and I now agree. Because I swear we were perfect for a year and 3 months but I guess that it would show sooner or later. People are there own worst enemies.
guy777 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 You broke her down to come running after you. Then when she surrendered that power and came to make up, you called her a chicken****. Give the girl a break man. You had her bowing down and then you decided to kick her while down. There is no harm in messing with each other, but bad timing. It was time for you to build her back up and get some goodies at that point. You f'd up. Time for you to eat some crow now.
Author diablodude64 Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 Not exactly... I asked her to come with me when she was on the balcony thing and after about 10 minutes she finally did. I know I screwed up a bit and I could have handled it better but why do things like that piss her off so much? I even told her I didn't mean it at all in a bad way, it was a joke.
Author diablodude64 Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 I know it was rude and I shouldn't have said it! I knew that the second after I said it.... now my question is should I tell her that? If not now, then when!!!!?
Titania22 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 Yes, the next time you see her, and then let it go and move on.
Author diablodude64 Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 Okay I will. But I don't want to seem anxious, I feel bad for it and I want her to know that I really do, but as far as getting back together I don't want to give the idea that I am already ready, because there is more too it.
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