NSDNQ Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 still pining for you ex? still fighting the urge to text and call and beg to be taken back. thought up this little exercise that lets you show yourself how much you SUBCONSIOUSLY eant them back. right down a list of pros and cons. their best and worst qualities/actions. dont just think it up. write it out on your own or post it here. you'll amaze yourself heres mine: PROS: *good taste in art *decent taste in music *Independent *low maitnence *FANTASTIC in bed *reads for pleasure *beautifull eyes *amazing smile *took my nightmares away *will be going to same college as me for a semester *has goals and dreams, this girl is going places *made me feel at peace and at home for the first time in my life *good kisser *prevented a suicide *hates my mother *loves my little sister *thinks my scars are sexy *my 1st true love *usually right about everything *good listener *street smart *well traveled *i am attracted to every part of her body *we think very much alike, like twins with ESP *loved me regardless of cash flow, car, housing etc CONS: *cheated on me *cheated on me *cheated on me *cheated on me *cheated on me *cheated on me *dumped me in a txt *dumped me in a txt *tried to run off with my best friend post break up *lied repeatedly about all of the above *got angry with me for demanding the truth about above lies *lives 29 miles away *her mom hates me *refuses to forgive me for my mistakes *wants nothing to do with me at the moment *is not ready to be committed or devoted to me in anyway *never loved me as much as I loved her *wrongly accuses me of stalking *checked out other guys infront of me immediately after the break up *I will be leaving for military very soon *pushes me away ALL THE TIME *insulted and belittled my career *shows bad judgement in her choice of men post break up *uses vindictive cruel and hatefull language towards me *is always dissapointed in everything I do *abandoned me when I needed her most whichever side you start running out of qualities with first should show you weather or not reconciliation is ever an option.
snug.bunny Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 heres mine: PROS: NULL & VOID CONS: *cheated on me I revised your list.
flyman Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I agree with the one above. You are probably torn over which decision to take, but do you think that she is also having this dilemma? Judging by the list that you gave me, she probably isn't. I'm sure that you already know what is best for you. Reconciliation will only put you in a vulnerable position to get hurt again. It's the last thing that you need at this point.
NicoleM Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I actually made a list like this before he dumped me. I had more cons than pros and yet I still wanted him. I think sometimes we want the bad boys rather than the good guys.
flyman Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 Oops disregard my previous post, I didn't read the entire post correctly. I hate everything about my ex, yet I still think about her. Isn't this weird?
Author NSDNQ Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 I revised your list. gotta love that voice in the back of your head that says "she can change" im young and stupid so i'll probably stick my heart in the blender a few more times before I'm convinced to the core its a lost cuase lol
Author NSDNQ Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 I actually made a list like this before he dumped me. I had more cons than pros and yet I still wanted him. I think sometimes we want the bad boys rather than the good guys. naturual selection. bad boys are the most durable and tough looking guys around, and therefore the most likely to pass those genes to their offspring. which in turn will breed children more likely to survive whatever comes their way. your genetically predisposed to pick *******s. aint life grand?
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