zlatnapolja Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 Goodmorning-evening-night (depending on which beautiful part of our world you live in), For A long time I've had discussions with friends and random ppl, about the never ending discussion on: What is more important inside or outside? After a long time I came up with a 'theory': Appearance is what attracts you to someone, behaviour is what makes you like- or fall for a person, and their character or soul is what determins if you'll love them. This theory would mean that if you allready know someone, and are friends with them even though your not attracted to them, that you could still fall for them. I personally think that I usually fall for someones 'presens' and how they make me feel, but who knows maybe I go for looks aswell! Anyway I was wondering what you all think about the subject! Inside or outside?
maysj18 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I strongly agree. I have many guy friends that I may not have been attracted to at first, but after becoming friends with them, you do develop those little crushes! I have ended it with some very attractive guys, too..simply because they didn't have good character. I think that if the outside draws you to them, more times than not it's not going to go well, but if their inside draws you in, that's a sign of a good relationship. Of course though, sexual attraction is very important. Not saying they can be beastly or anything.
thatone Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 (edited) i thought it was gonna be city people versus country people. you women are dirty with your anonymity! Edited May 26, 2011 by thatone
SteveC80 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 (edited) It starts with physical attraction,if theres absolutely none for me with a women then i dont care how cool she is well just be friends Yes a personality can make someobdy mroe attractive but i have to at least tolerate them physically and on a visual level Edited May 26, 2011 by SteveC80
Author zlatnapolja Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 It starts with physical attraction,if theres absolutely none for me with a women then i dont care how cool she is well just be friends Yes a personality can make someobdy mroe attractive but i have ot at leats tolerate them physically and on a visual level I saw a show the other day about some guy who was born with like half a face and he was married to a pretty woman. Is it that we really CANT fall in love with someone were not attracted to at first sight, or is it that we don't want to? I think i may go for looks too:p but I'm really curious about this!
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