LittleTiger Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 ]I could ask you why you think I'm making all of this up. :/ I have no reason to lie to completely anonymous strangers.[/b] Most people in my life have no clue or knowledge of the stuff you guys do. My sexploits' date=' my views, etc. I thought you would have at least appreciated that.[/quote'] Creating a false persona on a public message board - especially the persona you want LSers to believe and one that 'most people in your life have no clue or knowledge of' - is an ideal way for a sad and lonely person with low self esteem to make themselves feel good. I'm not saying that you are sad and lonely or have low self-esteem, that's just the impression you give.
threebyfate Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 I could ask you why you think I'm making all of this up. :/ I have no reason to lie to completely anonymous strangers. Most people in my life have no clue or knowledge of the stuff you guys do. My sexploits, my views, etc. I thought you would have at least appreciated that.If you're getting as much as you claim, you'd be one happy dude instead of a bitter, woman hater. Your posts read like a guy who crashes and burns with women. It would be like someone wealthy, bitter about being able to afford a Ferrari so they buy Ferrari after Ferrari, just to trash it. Are you really this unbalanced or are you just a lonely guy?
Kamille Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 What?!!! The older generations holds conservative sexists views about the younger generation?! What a shocker!!! But, I'm glad you've finally found a peer group who understands you Mr. DM! You cant fully judge a whole gender but going to Canada for a few months i noticed the difference in your average women there as opposed to here Most women were friendly and approachable even on cold approaches They dont seem ot have the same sense of entitlement and pricness syndrome allot of women have here in the states I think media has got something to do with this to. If I look at American televizion, it often encourages this mindsetting of thinking you should be treated like a princess, even if you don't treat others right (MTV, VH1). Still I think a lot of women all over the world have a really good attitude towards life and towards other ppl, so I dont really think it's a valid statement to make that women these days are so impolite. ahhhh... This analysis doesn't work. We have MTV and VH1 in Canada too. I gobble those princess shows like they're running out of style. I doubt Steve80's observations are representative anyway. He probably belongs to the club of LS posters who like to bash American women at any chance they get. I've been to the States many time and have yet to see a noticeable difference when it comes to who's nicer.
Kamille Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 If you're getting as much as you claim, you'd be one happy dude instead of a bitter, woman hater. Your posts read like a guy who crashes and burns with women. It would be like someone wealthy, bitter about being able to afford a Ferrari so they buy Ferrari after Ferrari, just to trash it. Are you really this unbalanced or are you just a lonely guy? Or someone who's so afraid of getting hurt, he's drowning in commitmentphobia as a defense mechanism. Someone who was over-sensitive now trying to act tough.
threebyfate Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Or someone who's so afraid of getting hurt, he's drowning in commitmentphobia as a defense mechanism. Someone who was over-sensitive now trying to act tough.Have to disagree on this one. There are plenty of women who aren't looking for anything serious, just FWBs or ONSs. That he purportedly deliberately "romances" women not caring that they're the type looking for relationships, then bitches when they want relationships, is beyond bizarre. No one could be this stupid and be sane. But for sure, he's got very low self-esteem.
sanskrit Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 OP, see how nuts it makes them when they feel some guy somewhere they don't even know has the gall to act towards women the way the average woman acts towards guys every day of her life? You couldn't possibly be just telling the truth and venting, you -must- be a woman hating liar who can't get any women, you simply -have- to be Keep building castles in the air, it's some of the best entertainment on LS: "I have no trouble getting sex, and get frustrated when women try to tie me down, thoughts?" "You must be gay!" "You sound like you are being shot down alot!" "You just hate women!" "You must be a liar!" "You're bitter" Couldn't make this stuff up.
Kriss Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 They could've thought whatever they want, I always got a fat tip after dropping them off. :/ So you like them girthy, eh?
Kamille Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Have to disagree on this one. There are plenty of women who aren't looking for anything serious, just FWBs or ONSs. That he purportedly deliberately "romances" women not caring that they're the type looking for relationships, then bitches when they want relationships, is beyond bizarre. No one could be this stupid and be sane. But for sure, he's got very low self-esteem. Oh, I agree and I think Mr. DM agrees: he definitely has a big chip on his shoulder when it comes to women. Else he could easily be respectful and honest and find satisfactory NSA sex that wouldn't "compromise" his lifestyle and somehow make him feel empty, as he seems to claim in another thread. He really doesn't seem at peace with the lifestyle he claims to have built for himself. But wherever his fear of women comes from, that's what's prompting his commitmentphobia. ps: sorry to talk about you in the 3rd person Mr. DM.
threebyfate Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Oh, I agree and I think Mr. DM agrees: he definitely has a big chip on his shoulder when it comes to women. Else he could easily be respectful and honest and find satisfactory NSA sex that wouldn't "compromise" his lifestyle and somehow make him feel empty, as he seems to claim in another thread. He really doesn't seem at peace with the lifestyle he claims to have built for himself. But wherever his fear of women comes from, that's what's prompting his commitmentphobia. ps: sorry to talk about you in the 3rd person Mr. DM.As an example, take this thread. He purports to seniors agreeing with him. And yet, these purported seniors would have no idea of his claimed lifestyle of hit it and quit it, which generates drama when the purported women were relationship style women. To me, this thread is more a vehicle for him once again stating how hot he is, as well as women bashing. None of this jives with getting laid all the time. People who get laid are usually pretty happy people. Case in point, you and I.
Kamille Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 You couldn't possibly be just telling the truth and venting, you -must- be a woman hating liar who can't get any women, you simply -have- to be I don't think he's making this stuff up. I've seen pics, he's a good looking guy. But the bottom line is this, and so far, Mr. Dream Merchant, you haven't answered the question. What's the problem? You love your life, you get loads of sex, you don't have/ don't want a relationship. So, what's the problem? Why does he need to vent?
Kamille Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 None of this jives with getting laid all the time. People who get laid are usually pretty happy people. Case in point, you and I. We also have the capacity to form healthy attachments. I get the feeling that's one of the main issues Mr DM is skirting around and that's why he's posting so many threads. I get the impression, OP, that you want an attachment, but are scared ****less of getting involved.
AuthenticBliss Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 At my old job, I used to give customers a ride home. Most of the customers were senior citizens, about 60 and up. Being stuck in traffic alot, I'd always make conversation..try to seek wisdom from them. We'd talk, they'd tell me the typical "Stay in school." and what not. But one thing that always, always, always came up was relationships. "Your a handsome young man, I bet you have all the women after you." "My you're handsome and well spoken, do you have a girlfriend?" Etc... I'd always reply no, then brace for them to catch a heart attack (cause people usually trip when they hear the answer!). And you know what they would tell me right after that? "Good. Keep it that way." "Smart man." "Young women these days are trouble." "Women aren't like how they used to be back in my time." "Nowadays these women are crazy, real drama queens." Etc. It was pretty crazy. Older men and women all had the same thing to say about women in my age group (20's) and that, in a nutshell, was "Young women are more trouble than they're worth.". Most of the time, the people telling me this were pretty successful and wealthy. Coincidence?I don't think it's a coincidence at all. Think back when most couples didn't have sex before marriage, and having a child out of wedlock was considered taboo.
sanskrit Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 So, what's the problem? Why does he need to vent? He's been very clear about that, the women he has sex with want more, when it just seemed at first that they wanted sex. This annoys him and makes him wonder if the problem is his or really theirs. He gets feedback from older folks telling him not to get tied down in his youth, so he takes that to mean that he is doing OK. Is that not a fair, stripped-down summary? If not, please feel free to offer an alternative reasonable summary that doesn't necessarily involve character assassination.
Woggle Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Most of the older generation doesn't like the man much either. I am 32 years old and have been told that I am credit to people my age because this world is in serious trouble when we leave it to the younger generation. I hate to say it but I look at what the older generations had to go through and they didn't whine nearly as much as people my age or younger do about trivial crap.
Kamille Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 He's been very clear about that, the women he has sex with want more, when it just seemed at first that they wanted sex. This annoys him and makes him wonder if the problem is his or really theirs. He gets feedback from older folks telling him not to get tied down in his youth, so he takes that to mean that he is doing OK. Is that not a fair, stripped-down summary? If not, please feel free to offer an alternative reasonable summary that doesn't necessarily involve character assassination. I have. And I don't see my take as character assassination. Surely, I don't have that much power.
Recommended Posts