cwmerk Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 So here it is. I love my Ex to death and want to get her back. She is going through some stuff and 4 weeks ago wanted space from our 7 year relationship. At first I was doing really good 2 weeks NC. Then something came up and her mom called me and said she was crying (another story). Anyway i called her up and calmed her down. It fealt really good to talk to her and I was really happy she answered right away. Two days later I texted her and told her if she ever needed anyone to talk to im there for her. She responded "thank you." I should have at that poing went back to NC but I fealt satisfaction from her responding to me. So i mistakingly kept texting her from time to time. and even called a couple times. This entire time she has never contacted me. Its been a few days since i last contacted her but really feel like i may have started to bug her a bit by texting the last couple weeks. Now i regret it and want to know if I should send one last text telling her im sorry i bugged her, or something that might show i want to respect her wish of space and breaking up. Or should I just go NC? I want to get her to miss me and stop bugging her but i dont know if I should first apologize for bugging her the last couple weeks, or do nothing but NC. what do you think I should do? I want to fix what I may have done by bugging her. BTW we are both 25 if that makes a difference
Johnny85 Posted May 26, 2011 Posted May 26, 2011 I second that, do NOT text her again. She has your number; and she knows where you live. When she starts to miss you, and there is a good chance that she will, she will contact you. She can't possibly miss you if you're always giving her attention. Read the laws of attraction thread. I think there is a lot there that will benefit you. Cheers!
Author cwmerk Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 Thanks. And i agree. Just wish I could let her know I made a mistake by not giving her her space the last couple weeks
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