Dazdnconfuzed Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 What date would be appropriate for the first kiss? When will it be too late? Some girls say they never kiss on the first date, but i have read on this forum that some people havent gotten a first kiss in like 6 months! I ask because I went on a date with the girl i posted about in an earlier thread and we held hands and it was all sweet but she said she was "scared" and "not ready" for the first kiss at the end of the night. I did not push when she said that and left it there. My friends tell me if I do not get it on the second date that I should leave her alone, does LS agree? Link to post Share on other sites
tb24 Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 My last girlfriend, I kissed within about an hour of meeting; before asking her out, getting her number or anything. My current girlfriend, I met online. First time we met in real life, I kissed her during the date (or rather, we were hugging, I leaned in and she kissed me). I guess I just prefer to move faster? Actually, those dates I've been on and not moved quickly didn't develop into relationships. Hmm... Link to post Share on other sites
reservoirdog1 Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 In my view, there should be a proper kiss -- i.e. not just a quick peck on the lips -- during the second date. (Obviously the first date is good too.) If that doesn't happen, chances are there's no spark between the two of you. Link to post Share on other sites
sanskrit Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 after the roofies kick in. Link to post Share on other sites
Jynxx Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 Within 2 hours of 1 on 1 conversation, if the setting is appropriate. Anything longer and you guys will be friends who sleep together sometimes rather than lovers. Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 Echoing what reservoirdog1 said, just as a woman. I would want to kiss by the end of the first date. If there's no kiss by the end of the second, you risk friend-zoning. Link to post Share on other sites
FryFish Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 I used to be shy about the first kiss but now if I feel like I I just pull her close and kiss her... It has only gone "poorly" once but not so poorly that she didnt end up calling me to hang out again a couple days later... I have been told numerous times by girls that I failed to kiss that they figured I wasnt interested in them or was gay... And dont ask, that just makes it more weird for them... well, ask, but not verbally. Let them close the last inch of space. Link to post Share on other sites
Cee Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 I think a kiss on 2nd date is about right. The earliest kiss I had was the middle of a first date, which led to a four year relationship. My current boyfriend was a slow poke and kissed me on the 3rd date. But then he asked me to go home with him. I said no, it's too soon. And proceeded to sleep with him on the 4th date. If the attraction is there, it is very hard to wait long for the first kiss. Have you ever noticed that when you are into somebody, it's hard to keep your hands off of them? You find excuses to touch them and brush against them. Link to post Share on other sites
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