Desensitized Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 when my friend showed me my ex-fiancee's Facebook today (because he's a jerk like that and he knows I have her blocked on my Facebook account) and showed me pictures of her with 4 guys hugging her and her being the center in each photo and the caption saying: "more game than you, bro." And how she also changed her relationship status back to "single" and a lot of guys hitting her up to "hang out." However, instead of getting upset/sad, I didn't feel anything - I simply laughed really loud, I don't know why. I proceeded to say, "somethings never change" she has a very extensive sexual past, and I could tell that the pictures were taken at a party (which is really not surprising that she's at a party given her history). I guess it made me laugh because she told me that she "changed" in that respect and that she "valued" sex now than before. She also uploaded attractive pictures of her in various dresses (obviously to attract male attention) but the quote "dignity does not consist in a silk dress" came to mind . Anyways, I just made this thread to show people that it doesn't matter how close to a person you were at one point in time, YOU WILL GET OVER THE PERSON - be proactive, and I can promise you that you will be over them in no time. Since my hard times, I have been feeling up and down about things, but me looking at her FB just proves that I have made significant progress in my healing process. Like I said, I was literally laughing out loud when my friend was showing me her FB xD. Thanks to all the LS members who helped me when I needed help the most, much appreciated. I've been proactive about things and even though I was faced with hard times, I still pushed through it all. I even have six pack abs now I never had abs before, so this is awesome! I even got a couple dates! Perhaps I should upload pics of my new abs onto Facebook and make her a bit jealous nah, I won't do that Take it easy, LS.
smudge21 Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 I know what you're saying. I can bring up a few old flames from my past that I knew, at the time, I was crazy for. Now it's like I can't even imagine fancying them. It's even hard to recall any time when I did feel anything for them. I know it happened, but it just seems so foreign to me - more like it happened to someone else. Hard to explain. I guess it's like I'm looking at a stranger - no feelings whatsoever for them, they're just some person. So very odd to think that one day I'll be like that over my recent ex - she'll be the same as she was before I met her; just an attractive girl who I didn't know or care for. That's sad in some ways but happy in others.
Sugarkane Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 It makes me sad that our even after the breakup, our exes are still the same people. They haven't done the work that we have and haven't changed at all.
Author Desensitized Posted May 25, 2011 Author Posted May 25, 2011 It makes me sad that our even after the breakup, our exes are still the same people. They haven't done the work that we have and haven't changed at all. I'm so glad I didn't marry this girl, what the hell was I thinking? I was obviously blinded by the love I had for her. A while back, when I was still frustrated with her and we were already broken up, I told her that she should just join the porn industry. At least that way she would at least have a bit of cash in her pocket, no? I mean hell, if she likes sex so much, at least be making a profit out of it. I don't understand how she can sleep with 30+ guys and not consider joining the porn industry. Just boggles my mind. I remember all the times she told me that she had changed, and each time I always told her, "no, you haven't." Judge one not by their words but by their actions. Sigh... I dislike sluts. Anyways, rant over.
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