OCCDAVE Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 i text kathy this morning so hey hows work going which got no reply.i called her about 8 pm small chat she said she was sick i was like i hope you get better.she said she was going to the doctor get some meds.i text her few mins ago so how did it go at the doctor her reply to be honest i think your coming on to strong how is 1 call and 2 text in one day to much
cerridwen Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 She obviously likes to take it much slower than you. She wants more space in the beginning. She's sick on top of it. So, there maybe a touch of irritability thrown in. Leave her be. Text "Sorry. I'll let you rest and give you space." Then do it.
smudge21 Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 Don't reply back. Leave it for her to get in to get in touch. If she's going to be off with you like that, then you need to step back otherwise you risk making things worse, even if you reply back with 'sorry' now. Everyone's different so some girls love attention, others don't. You just have to make the best guess you can and hope it works out. You've done nothing wrong so don't beat yourself up, you're only showing that you care. It's her problem if she can't see that. Go silent for a bit, maybe even not respond to her straight away when she contacts you. When she asks what's wrong, just remind her of what she said but not in a angry way, more in a 'whatever' sort of way, like it doesn't bother you. Although now she's saying she's put off by your contact, when it doesn't come I bet she misses it.
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 25, 2011 Author Posted May 25, 2011 well bit of an update i made the mistake of reply not sure how you think im coming on strong we hardly talked.her reply we talked a bit i dont think were clicking.at this point another dumb move your gonna tell me something i wanna hear it not read it.hey so whats up what happen her uhh nothing we talked a bit just not interested i said well you were at one point take care like i said been chattin on that site about a week untill last saturday gave my number.she text me tuesday night we texted then i called her for a few.yesterday 2 text and one call and thats enough to decide ugg
sanskrit Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 In situations when you weren't really coming on strong, "you are coming on too strong" is generally a crappy, blame-laying way of saying "I'm not interested in continuing." You didn't do anything wrong, but time to move on to other options.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 I wouldn't reply back. Just wait for her to reply. If she never does, then she's obviously not interested. If she does, then just see where it goes from there.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 In situations when you weren't really coming on strong, "you are coming on too strong" is generally a crappy, blame-laying way of saying "I'm not interested in continuing." You didn't do anything wrong, but time to move on to other options. Yeah, when I read his original post I did think that she's probably just not interested.
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