singlelife Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 Ok...I was sleeping with this girl and it is just occassional sex. No strings attached and we both know we sleep with other people. We also go party sometimes. Well I usually hang with her and her bff. Just so happens that her friend totally has her **** together and we have a lot in common and both talk to each other on a very intellectuall level as well. Just so happens that we saw each other out one night and hung and partied and talked. It was like magic for real. We didn't mess around but talked on the phone. So we took a weekend trip and talked, listened to music and enjoyed each others company. She said we are just friends because she could never be with her bff hook up. She also found out we had stopped hooking up as I had turned her friend down. So we didn't have sex and we had one kiss. When we came home I stayed the night and we cuddled and kissed and slept til like 2p the next day. She kept sayin over and over why did I have to sleep with her bff and that she just can't do it. But the more we hang out the more it's obvious we both like each other. Then we just look in each others eyes and get lost. She is really struggling with the fact that she likes me. And she won't jeopardize her friendship with her bff. I wouldn't want her too. So that's where we are. Anyway around this? I respect that she has morals about herself. Trying to understand exactly how she is feeling about this. HELP!!!
Author singlelife Posted May 25, 2011 Author Posted May 25, 2011 Ok I would really like some good advice
Kampo Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 can't you just talk to the gal you met her thru? if she really doesn't care she would want her friend to be happy and will let her know she doesn't care. if she does care well then you have your answer and need to just forget it, she will pick her bff over you
Author singlelife Posted May 26, 2011 Author Posted May 26, 2011 Just found out the girl really likes me. Then the girl I use to sleep with has been tripping. Don't know if she know about us but she has been texting asking why I haven't been with her lately. Then she has been all emotional and tryed to go off on me. So I told her I would just leave her alone and told the girl I like I would leave her alone. The girl I liked seemed upset but I just ain't going through this. So we'll see if the girl I like calls or what.
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