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It seems to me that every couple has really good, frequent sex in the beginning of their relationship and it eventually dies off to 3 or 4 times a week at most. What have you guys experienced? In my past relationships, this is certainly accurate.

 

Also, do you think two people can be sexually attracted to each other with the same amount of intensity or will all couples see that lessen, or go away completely?

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Funny story - I've has 3 SERIOUS girlfriends since I finished college.

 

First girlfriend, was younger than me (I was 25 she was 21) and the sex was constant and quite good. It never really declined but the age gap was too much for us to withstand.

 

Second girlfriend, was my age (we were both 27) we had sex A LOT but not nearly as much as the first girlfriend...eventually it did wind down a lot...so I thought maybe there was a problem. I reached out to 2 different girls I knew who were very cool and easy going (also both very slutty in college). They went to different schools too; one I knew from high school and the other I knew from college. They BOTH laughed at me and had VERY similar reactions. I was worried because we were only having sex 4 or 5 times a week. The two girls I asked were like "4 or 5 times a week?!?! Aren't you ever tired at night??? My boyfriend and I are twice a week MOST!" And the other girl said 2 or 3 times most a week.

 

Granted, I think EVERYONE is different.

 

Third girlfriend - The girlfriend I am with now. The most amazing woman I have ever met. The woman I will likely marry unless I screw it up first, lol. We have sex SOOOOOO much and it hasn't faded at all. Just this past weekend was probably the best sex we ever had. Lol. She might be less attracted to me but I seem to be more and more attracted to her each day.

 

You're probably better off asking someone married 20 years, though 80% of them will probably say everything fades I would suspect.

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