Mathias Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Long story short, broke up with my ex around 2 months ago. We were living together for 8 months from the beginning of our relationship, she was living at work, so I took her into my home. During this time, I learned of her past drug history, her secret relapse during our relationship and her road to recovery in which I paid for mentally and fiscally. Despite drug problem, she was a great person to live with, and she always paid the bills on time.Toward the end of our relationship, we were moving into a house her parents were buying as a vacation home 10 years before they retired. We were to take care of the house and pay rent. One thing led to another and I we ended up taking a break from one another to me breaking up with her a week later. We were on and off with contact for a few weeks, trying to stay as friends, even hooked up once, she kept wondering if I broke up with her for another girl, I didn't. Eventually she told me she was seeing someone and broke a date with me. I told her I wanted no contact for awhile if she wanted to keep me as a friend, on my birthday none the less, for both of our feelings. That night I met a wonderful girl, very sexy and intelligence to match. Right off the bat we had so much in common from music, to schooling, food choices ect. We both decided to take it slow and didn't even start dating until a week and a half later. The more time we spend with each other, the closer we have become, realizing how similar we are. Talking with her is always effortless, and we pretty much have fun doing even the most boring of tasks. Last week, my sister, my ex's and I roomate had a baby. I figured it was my place to tell her, ask her about the new house and break the no contact rule, I was always the more dominant person in the relationship. She invited me over and asked if I could help her hook her new t.v. up. After I did, I ended up finishing my errands to be contacted by her about 2 hours later that she was glad to see me and hoped I was doing well. She also explained that she was having anxiety, and that her new relationship wasn't doing too hot. She invited me over for drinks and to hang out. We ended up talking all night, telling me about her new boyfriend; a 25 year old monster truck driver, unemployed, that is living with his mother. She told me how particular he was, and that she had to beg for sex from him even, and thta he drank, alot. One thing led to another and we ended up talkign about our relationship, how much she missed my cookign and our routines we always had. How she can't stand to sleep alone, and that our sex life was amazing. I told her then of my new lady friend, to which she fired off multiple questions, forgeting her name every time, an attempt so see if my story was conistant I think. When I left at 2am she thanked me so much, and gave me a long embracing hug. She also said just don't get the wrong idea and that she didn't want to lead me on I said she wasn't and have a good night, feel free to contact me if you have anxiety. Sorry a lot, I think its obvious that she wants me back. I just wanted to take your word on it. I'm not sure if I would though, this new girl and I haven't made any solid commitments yet, but I wouldn't want to stop what relationship we have to go back to this. Any takers haha?
flitzanu Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 eumm.....where do you gather she wants you back? you just became HER girlfriend after a conversation like that.
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