tikster Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 (edited) Hi guys, I must say that after years of torment from some of the worst guys to date, I finally met a man that is just amazing. I met him two months ago and then we dated for only a month until... He told me that a friend of his informed him of a job opportunity in Hawaii although it is the same thing he is doing now in CA, but I guess it's a good and new adventure :/ i don't know. Anyway, he was initially not going to really look into it because his family is here in CA, he has a job and the same opportunities for school and let's not forget about me even though i was a new thing. Well, he decided to send in an application just to see what happens. With that he felt that IF he did get the job he'd be moving to Hawaii and didn't want risk getting closer and hurt me in the long run by leaving. We had a very amicable breakup the other day and he in fact couldn't make a decision, he said he didn't know what to do because he didn't want to lose me. We went back and forth and ended up saying that we didn't know if this was the right thing to do, but we should let go. I am so sad. It's been 5 days since (i know, not that long) I messed up and texted him telling him that I really missed him, but he didn't reply and I'm not mad that he didn't He told me that if he didn't hear anything about the job in a few months he couldn't say that he would not do something to get me back. I was sad, flattered and mad at that statement all at once for I feel like in that case, alot of time and sad emotion could be wasted, but what can we do? I want him to go for all the opportunities he can get. I truly care about him. Even with time apart is there still a chance we could get back or that he even misses me? I'm afraid that with whatever happens he'll forget about me and move on, regardless. Edited May 24, 2011 by tikster
hurley21 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 I hate to say it, but it looks like he wanted a way out of the relationship. You'd been together such a short time and believe me, people do not start showing their true colors until 6-9 months into a relationship. He wasn't invested enough to not apply for a job in another state or ask you if you'd be willing to move, too. Either he didn't feel the same way you do, or he wussed out.
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