Kampo Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Ok so I broke up with my ex 3 months ago, after about a month after I went complete Man Whore and was juggling 3-4 casual relationships with women up till recently when most of them fizzled out, and haven't been feeling motivated to generate new prospects. one is still a friend maybe she still wants more but she is "confuseing" Well couple weekends ago I met a "good girl" I guess I would call her most of the women I have been dating I wouldn't call bad people just have fun with type not the type I could ever see dating long term. I met this girl thru my step-sis, was her best friend in Highschool and they are still close. normally I don't even have the thoughts I have right now about women, only happend once before that was with my ex. I'm trying to keep it to myself with her since I don't want to run her off but tbh she is pushing back harder than I am anyway so pretty sure were on the same level. and the odd part of this is if it wasn't for my stepsis I would of never even thought of aproaching her, I'm a "bigger guy" and while not unattractive I typically go for women in the same category cute and a bit curvy, well this women is very attractive which is just throwing me off. She iniaties 90% of communication texts me every morning to say good morning, during her lunch then we chat a bit in the evening over text and talk most nights (breaking alot of my typical rules when dating but she is iniating and I'm just going with it since tbh this would be what I would do if I didn't limit myself anyway) sucky thing about this is she lives 2 hrs away from me. we been on 2 dates so far (party at my step-sis where we met, and lunch date the next day) we have plans tommrow for dinner and some activity after pending weather. and she is going to spend the entire weekend for the holiday. Dunno I don't know what I even am anxious about here, I just am scared because I'm letting my guard down and getting feelings about someone for the first time since my ex. I'm about 90% sure i'm over her saw my ex this past weekend to hash out the last of our financial business and it was completely a non event, although she is obviously still a wreck and I was annoyed since I went to her place and she had pics of us still on the walls (she broke up with me...which I found odd her still keeping that up, she has redecorated since I moved out so it just isn't lazyness). So anyways alot of rambling there but should I do anything to limit the mass of communication comming her way or if she is initating and i'm fine with it just let it go? from what I gather from my step-sis she is the type to rush into things which worries me a bit since I am too so don't want to jump in over my head yet I really do right now lol.
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