ilovedhim Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Guys, why don't you mind having sex with someone that you know is sleeping with others? For example, men that only date married women. Because for me, if I know a guy is seeing someone, I would never have sex with him.
Art_Critic Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 I would never have sex with a woman who was having sex with others.. ever... Date her while she was dating others.. sure.. have sex with her while she was banging another guy.. no effing way... I have my own self respect and expect any woman I dated to have the same..
taiko Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Why? Because its about the guy's penis, not his heart. And if she has someone else, then that guy might even claim responsibility if a kid is the result. DNA testing and blood typing is not standard .....yet:cool:
somedude81 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Some men take sex whenever they can. Usually in a situation where the woman is having sex with more than one guy, there are no emotions involved, it's just sex.
sanskrit Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Because I've had sex with so many women who were sleeping with others without telling me, or even lying about it, that I got deadened to it after awhile, and assume all desirable women I meet now are having sex with somebody regularly.
bluenightowl Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Guys, why don't you mind having sex with someone that you know is sleeping with others? For example, men that only date married women. Because for me, if I know a guy is seeing someone, I would never have sex with him. Not all men are like this. I think those that are, probably are not interested in a relationship, but some short-term fun, or who really don't care if much comes of the relationship.
bluenightowl Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Because I've had sex with so many women who were sleeping with others without telling me, or even lying about it, that I got deadened to it after awhile, and assume all desirable women I meet now are having sex with somebody regularly. What did you do when you found out? Keep dating them hoping they choose you or move on? I know what you mean, but I'm not sure if I'd be happy know the women of my dreams is having sex with other men, even if eventually she choose me. The best relationships I've ever been in, usually both of us like each others almost right from the beginning.
sanskrit Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 (edited) Some men take sex whenever they can. Oh, yeah forgot this, insert cut and paste response: The ways that men and women seek and obtain sex are so different as to be apples and oranges. Men, unlike women, have little control over which of their efforts to obtain sex will pay off, so have to weigh that she is having sex with other dudes against an internal calculus of when the next time his efforts to obtain sex will actually result in sex. nr-(p+e) = x(-b) where n is the number of dudes she is banging, r is a subjective "revulsion multiple" reflecting his scaling loss of desire as n increases or decreases. p is a subjective measure of the last time he had sex as measured in hours, days, weeks, months, or years, e is a subjective measure of the estimated next time he will have sex measured in hours, days, weeks, months or years b is a drunkeness ratio A man's propensity to have sex with a woman who is banging other dudes is a multiple of the number of dudes she is banging and a scaling revulsion factor minus the sum of the weighted previous sex incident and the weighted next sex incident such that if x times the drunkenness ratio >or= 1 he likely won't have sex with her, and if x times the drunkenness ratio <or=1 he will have sex with her. No I was not a math major in case the above left any doubt Please feel free to help out with the formula if you are/were. EDIT I think the "b" should be a dividend on the other side, but can't figure out how to type that:lmao: Edited May 24, 2011 by sanskrit
sanskrit Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 What did you do when you found out? Keep dating them hoping they choose you or move on? Rarely find out until after we weren't involved or weren't having sex any more. "O Andrea? she pulled a train on a conference table last month!" Once I did find out and continued to date and pursue, as the woman was extremely gorgeous. Big mistake, as I hadn't become fully deadened yet. Now I could care less unless she is doing risky sex. Took me to my thirties to realize that women today have much much more sex than they will ever reveal or even admit to.
fishtaco Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Why not? Sex is just an activity. It could mean more, yes. With the right person, that's always the best. But that's not the only type of sex that's possible. Also, it's not like men are the only ones that have casual sex. Plenty of women have casual sex too.
nordic Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Oh, yeah forgot this, insert cut and paste response: The ways that men and women seek and obtain sex are so different as to be apples and oranges. Men, unlike women, have little control over which of their efforts to obtain sex will pay off, so have to weigh that she is having sex with other dudes against an internal calculus of when the next time his efforts to obtain sex will actually result in sex. nr-(p+e) = x(-b) where n is the number of dudes she is banging, r is a subjective "revulsion multiple" reflecting his scaling loss of desire as n increases or decreases. p is a subjective measure of the last time he had sex as measured in hours, days, weeks, months, or years, e is a subjective measure of the estimated next time he will have sex measured in hours, days, weeks, months or years b is a drunkeness ratio A man's propensity to have sex with a woman who is banging other dudes is a multiple of the number of dudes she is banging and a scaling revulsion factor minus the sum of the weighted previous sex incident and the weighted next sex incident such that if x times the drunkenness ratio >or= 1 he likely won't have sex with her, and if x times the drunkenness ratio <or=1 he will have sex with her. No I was not a math major in case the above left any doubt Please feel free to help out with the formula if you are/were. EDIT I think the "b" should be a dividend on the other side, but can't figure out how to type that:lmao: funny boy. honestly who cares as long as she keeps spreading her legs for you without any of that female complication that sometimes follow with screwing women? just never marry a women like that
sanskrit Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 honestly who cares as long as she keeps spreading her legs for you without any of that female complication that sometimes follow with screwing women? Well when she spreads those legs and the "Pop-n-Fresh Yeast Boy" leaps out, or "Snow Blight and the Seven Warts" it can scar you emotionally for life to the point of post traumatic stress disorder, so there's that
SincereOnlineGuy Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Guys, why don't you mind having sex with someone that you know is sleeping with others? For example, men that only date married women. Because for me, if I know a guy is seeing someone, I would never have sex with him. LOL - this is crazy! Comparing a woman, who can get sex anytime and anyplace she wants it, to a guy, who typically cannot be so selective about his partners, is almost entirely absurd. (the only reason you're not having sex right now... is because while you can select the time and the place, you can't freely select the particular partner). Furthermore, "for women, sex begins at dinner"... so naturally your position of "if I know a guy is seeing someone, I would never have sex with him" won't draw you toward such a being, when the build-up you want begins so deeply within your mind (and not out in the "who's interested and potentially agreeable? who's convenient in the moment" part of the world). But, despite that, it just isn't right for you to infer that males should live by the standards you profess to maintain.
shadowofman Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 I'm fine with sleeping with women that are sleeping with men for three reasons. 1. I couldn't be so despotic as to demand or even expect someone to forsake anything for me. That being said, I could be disgusted and lose interest if she were sleeping with methheads or something. 2. The Golden Rule. I want to have sex with other people, so I'd be a hypocrite to deny another the same freedom. 3. And finally, I think it's really sexy when an attractive woman has sex with an attractive man. Call me crazy.
bluenightowl Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 (edited) Once I did find out and continued to date and pursue, as the woman was extremely gorgeous. Big mistake, as I hadn't become fully deadened yet. Now I could care less unless she is doing risky sex. Took me to my thirties to realize that women today have much much more sex than they will ever reveal or even admit to. I think its really mindset. If you want fun, exciting sex and don't care if leads to more, no problem if she is dating or sleeping with other guys.. and its lets a guy be free to do whatever he wants. If you want something more.. like a relationship.. I would say most men would break if off, or try to stay low key about it.. but I doubt the last strategy is a good one for if he has already developed feelings for this women. Edited May 24, 2011 by bluenightowl
nordic Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Well when she spreads those legs and the "Pop-n-Fresh Yeast Boy" leaps out, or "Snow Blight and the Seven Warts" it can scar you emotionally for life to the point of post traumatic stress disorder, so there's that he he. thats why god gave us latex isnt it? never figured you to be that sensitive.
Author ilovedhim Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 and assume all desirable women I meet now are having sex with somebody regularly. Sad but I always assume the same too.
Author ilovedhim Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 Not all men are like this. I think those that are, probably are not interested in a relationship, but some short-term fun, or who really don't care if much comes of the relationship. Why would someone go through life this way?
Author ilovedhim Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 Some men take sex whenever they can. Usually in a situation where the woman is having sex with more than one guy, there are no emotions involved, it's just sex. People like this are pathetic.
Author ilovedhim Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 Men, unlike women, have little control over which of their efforts to obtain sex will pay off, so have to weigh that she is having sex with other dudes against an internal calculus of when the next time his efforts to obtain sex will actually result in sex. nr-(p+e) = x(-b) where n is the number of dudes she is banging, r is a subjective "revulsion multiple" reflecting his scaling loss of desire as n increases or decreases. p is a subjective measure of the last time he had sex as measured in hours, days, weeks, months, or years, e is a subjective measure of the estimated next time he will have sex measured in hours, days, weeks, months or years b is a drunkeness ratio I love this So basically this type of guy, assuming not all men are like this, is just looking to get laid. BUT why don't guys just have a GF situation and not worry about sex since they'll always be getting it. Isn't having a GF so much easier (with all it's complications) than the calculation above?
Author ilovedhim Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 LOL - this is crazy! Comparing a woman, who can get sex anytime and anyplace she wants it, to a guy, who typically cannot be so selective about his partners, is almost entirely absurd. (the only reason you're not having sex right now... is because while you can select the time and the place, you can't freely select the particular partner). Furthermore, "for women, sex begins at dinner"... so naturally your position of "if I know a guy is seeing someone, I would never have sex with him" won't draw you toward such a being, when the build-up you want begins so deeply within your mind (and not out in the "who's interested and potentially agreeable? who's convenient in the moment" part of the world). But, despite that, it just isn't right for you to infer that males should live by the standards you profess to maintain. I guess it's about how desparate the guy is.
OriginalPenguin Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Guys, why don't you mind having sex with someone that you know is sleeping with others? For example, men that only date married women. Because for me, if I know a guy is seeing someone, I would never have sex with him. Why is this a question just for guys? Speaking as a guy I find the insinuation insulting. To imply that just being male makes it a non issue is wrong on so many levels. This is in no way a gender specific issue. Personally I would mind a GREAT deal if I knew that my gf was sleeping with others....seriously, that seems like something that should not even have to be vocalized.
guy777 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Because I've had sex with so many women who were sleeping with others without telling me, or even lying about it, that I got deadened to it after awhile, and assume all desirable women I meet now are having sex with somebody regularly. Same . . There is no reason to think exclusivity with people when it isn't there. Who will I find who is attractive and not sleeping with someone else? They can tell me whatever on this subject but I don't believe them. So I give them plenty of room to do what they want. Problem is that it's hard for me personally to really get into it with those I know are sleeping with others, but I'll do it anyway.
Author ilovedhim Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 Woman certainly do it as well. But not many will continue on with a relationship knowing the guy is sleeping around. The reason I asked is this: a married friend of mine is sleeping with a guy on the side almost weekly and he doesn't care she's married. I'm wondering what's going on in his head because he's single. Wouldn't it be easier for him to get a GF? I'm also finding that even when I tell guys I'm seeing someone they don't care. I went so far as to tell someone I'm married and he didn't blink!
Jono85 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 the generalizations on this board are out of this world
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