AngelaT Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Ok so see my other thread "I need a break right now".... He texted last night and asked if he could call and just say hi and catch up. I ignored it. Seriously? We're not bar buddies, I was about to be his freaking wife. If he called, I'd planned to answer but he didn't. Tomorrow is his birthday. Do I text him Happy Birthday? Write it on his wall on FB? or just continue with no contact?
MyHeartHurtsOuch Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Ok so see my other thread "I need a break right now".... He texted last night and asked if he could call and just say hi and catch up. I ignored it. Seriously? We're not bar buddies, I was about to be his freaking wife. If he called, I'd planned to answer but he didn't. Tomorrow is his birthday. Do I text him Happy Birthday? Write it on his wall on FB? or just continue with no contact? I know everyone is going to say NC....i think that with my ex fiance what bothered him the most and what let him know i was serious about not being toyed with was not saying anything to him on his bday. my current ex just texted me happy bday on my bday and it hurt. a lot. he didnt do anything for me not even a card. it says a lot when we dont respond to someones special day.
Sassygirl2 Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Did he break up with you? I wouldn't text him even though it's the "nice" thing to do. It will give him false hope or give you false hope when he responds. Either way it's going to suck. I know it's hard - believe me.
Author AngelaT Posted May 24, 2011 Author Posted May 24, 2011 Well I kind of broke it and kind of didn't. His girls and I were making him a video picture collage for his birthday. I took my daughter and I out of it and sent it to him. I know the girls would want him to have it. We'll see.
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