RodG Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Hey guys, I am 24 and my ex is almost 22. Anyways, I met my (ex) girlfriend in 2007, I'll admit it was over the internet. I never talk to people over the internet but this girl was just different. It wasn't serious for a long time and she'd leave and come back numerous times. She left before summer 2008 and came back after summer was over and we were always talking since then. She is from Manitoba and I am in BC. So a fair distance. So anyway, in Sept 2009 she decided to come to school in my province. I would drive six hours to come see her. A few times every month. It was the greatest thing seeing her for the first time. She decided to move to my city with me last year in our own place. We lived here until last month. We did EVERYTHING together. She moved home at the end of that month and we were supposed to visit each other. We were supposed to stay together. Sometime a week or so after she just started getting distant, not talking to me. I was freaking out. Anyway, she said that "long distance won't work" and that "it just feels like the relationship is over". This girl always said she loved me, even days before this. She would never let me walk by her without a hug, always wanting to cuddle. We were inseparable. I took care of this girl. I always drove her to work and picked her up. My plan in life was to move out there with her for good. We talked of marriage and she LOVED when I'd get on one knee as if practicing. Now, she ended it so easily for her. How can she do that? I know she hasn't cried or been up all night like me in absolute misery. She did say she still loves me and that she misses me. But now it seems like she is always with her friends, going to parties and stuff. She says she hasn't changed but I just know. She doesn't want to stay friends and she just wants it "ended". How can someone be so cold like that? after everything we've been through? Now I'm alone on the place we lived with all these memories and I invested so much into my future with this girl that my future just seems blank now. I know her so well, but I just can't tell if she's bottling her emotions up. She's done that before. but, I know I've lost her. I know I can survive alone I just don't want to. She's always been by my side. This is the worst time of my life and it feels as if it will never get better. I don't really want anyone else. It was so much more than physical attraction, I don't believe in destiny but it just felt like it was the way my life was supposed to be. Everything can be going badly but I've got my girl. I don't have her anymore and I'm left here alone hoping she'll come back to me. Sometime, anytime, like she has before. Now I'm constantly thinking she is with guys and having the time of her life. Like she doesn't know she could have that, but be with me. She just doesn't care anymore. And this is all in a span of two or so weeks! The pain is like nothing I've ever felt. I am so alone. Thank you for letting me get it off my chest.
hummingbird Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 hey there- I am sorry you are so hurting.... I can only say, I so understand. my story is VERY different but similar as well.... my future has changed in an instant. grieve and find your friends.... and know, you are young and life is ahead of you for so much still yet to come.. in the mean time hugs
SunnyV Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Hey guys, I am 24 and my ex is almost 22. Anyways, I met my (ex) girlfriend in 2007, I'll admit it was over the internet. I never talk to people over the internet but this girl was just different. It wasn't serious for a long time and she'd leave and come back numerous times. She left before summer 2008 and came back after summer was over and we were always talking since then. She is from Manitoba and I am in BC. So a fair distance. So anyway, in Sept 2009 she decided to come to school in my province. I would drive six hours to come see her. A few times every month. It was the greatest thing seeing her for the first time. She decided to move to my city with me last year in our own place. We lived here until last month. We did EVERYTHING together. She moved home at the end of that month and we were supposed to visit each other. We were supposed to stay together. Sometime a week or so after she just started getting distant, not talking to me. I was freaking out. Anyway, she said that "long distance won't work" and that "it just feels like the relationship is over". This girl always said she loved me, even days before this. She would never let me walk by her without a hug, always wanting to cuddle. We were inseparable. I took care of this girl. I always drove her to work and picked her up. My plan in life was to move out there with her for good. We talked of marriage and she LOVED when I'd get on one knee as if practicing. Now, she ended it so easily for her. How can she do that? I know she hasn't cried or been up all night like me in absolute misery. She did say she still loves me and that she misses me. But now it seems like she is always with her friends, going to parties and stuff. She says she hasn't changed but I just know. She doesn't want to stay friends and she just wants it "ended". How can someone be so cold like that? after everything we've been through? Now I'm alone on the place we lived with all these memories and I invested so much into my future with this girl that my future just seems blank now. I know her so well, but I just can't tell if she's bottling her emotions up. She's done that before. but, I know I've lost her. I know I can survive alone I just don't want to. She's always been by my side. This is the worst time of my life and it feels as if it will never get better. I don't really want anyone else. It was so much more than physical attraction, I don't believe in destiny but it just felt like it was the way my life was supposed to be. Everything can be going badly but I've got my girl. I don't have her anymore and I'm left here alone hoping she'll come back to me. Sometime, anytime, like she has before. Now I'm constantly thinking she is with guys and having the time of her life. Like she doesn't know she could have that, but be with me. She just doesn't care anymore. And this is all in a span of two or so weeks! The pain is like nothing I've ever felt. I am so alone. Thank you for letting me get it off my chest. Hey I know what your going through man. My ex just broke up with me 5 days ago. Dropped me outta nowhere. I have this break up that is helping my cope. I can send it you ya.
plasma Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Hey guys, I am 24 and my ex is almost 22. Anyways, I met my (ex) girlfriend in 2007, I'll admit it was over the internet. I never talk to people over the internet but this girl was just different. It wasn't serious for a long time and she'd leave and come back numerous times. She left before summer 2008 and came back after summer was over and we were always talking since then. She is from Manitoba and I am in BC. So a fair distance. So anyway, in Sept 2009 she decided to come to school in my province. I would drive six hours to come see her. A few times every month. It was the greatest thing seeing her for the first time. She decided to move to my city with me last year in our own place. We lived here until last month. We did EVERYTHING together. She moved home at the end of that month and we were supposed to visit each other. We were supposed to stay together. Sometime a week or so after she just started getting distant, not talking to me. I was freaking out. Anyway, she said that "long distance won't work" and that "it just feels like the relationship is over". This girl always said she loved me, even days before this. She would never let me walk by her without a hug, always wanting to cuddle. We were inseparable. I took care of this girl. I always drove her to work and picked her up. My plan in life was to move out there with her for good. We talked of marriage and she LOVED when I'd get on one knee as if practicing. Now, she ended it so easily for her. How can she do that? I know she hasn't cried or been up all night like me in absolute misery. She did say she still loves me and that she misses me. But now it seems like she is always with her friends, going to parties and stuff. She says she hasn't changed but I just know. She doesn't want to stay friends and she just wants it "ended". How can someone be so cold like that? after everything we've been through? Now I'm alone on the place we lived with all these memories and I invested so much into my future with this girl that my future just seems blank now. I know her so well, but I just can't tell if she's bottling her emotions up. She's done that before. but, I know I've lost her. I know I can survive alone I just don't want to. She's always been by my side. This is the worst time of my life and it feels as if it will never get better. I don't really want anyone else. It was so much more than physical attraction, I don't believe in destiny but it just felt like it was the way my life was supposed to be. Everything can be going badly but I've got my girl. I don't have her anymore and I'm left here alone hoping she'll come back to me. Sometime, anytime, like she has before. Now I'm constantly thinking she is with guys and having the time of her life. Like she doesn't know she could have that, but be with me. She just doesn't care anymore. And this is all in a span of two or so weeks! The pain is like nothing I've ever felt. I am so alone. Thank you for letting me get it off my chest. jesus christ man! in 2-3 weeks of detox you will be fine, you MUST DETOX however ! You will be fine!
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