Met a girl once...is it too "stalker-ish" to add her on facebook?

[pricecheck023]

I met this gorgeous girl in the grocery store the other day. I had seen her before at the restaurant she works at and have always wanted to meet her. We only spoke briefly at the store..."Hey don't you work at Clementine's?"...I told her my name and we both mentioned where we went to college and then she said she'd see me around. Nothing much really was said, but it got me in the door with her. I've actually come across her facebook so I already kinda know how to get to it through a friends page. Would it be too creepy for me to add her since we only met this one time? I mean I know I'll eventually see her again probably where she works, but should I wait to talk to her then (if the chance even comes)? I know I'm being impatient with this bc I really want to get to know this girl, but I just don't wanna seem like I went home and stalked around on facebook all night to find her. But then again aren't we all facebook stalkers these days?

[spiderowl]

I think if she liked you, she wouldn't find it stalkerish. If she didn't like you much or felt neutral, she might realise that adding her is a sign of interest - in which case if you end up messaging, she might give a minimal-to-non-existent response. It's up to you how brave you are going to be with regard to advancing in this way. I think that one more visit to the shop to chat to her and break the ice/bond a little more before adding her, might be a better move. That way, she might even suggest it or vice versa. Either way, good luck!

Edited May 24, 2011 by spiderowl

[BeenThere11]

I met this gorgeous girl in the grocery store the other day. I had seen her before at the restaurant she works at and have always wanted to meet her. We only spoke briefly at the store..."Hey don't you work at Clementine's?"...I told her my name and we both mentioned where we went to college and then she said she'd see me around. Nothing much really was said, but it got me in the door with her. I've actually come across her facebook so I already kinda know how to get to it through a friends page. Would it be too creepy for me to add her since we only met this one time? I mean I know I'll eventually see her again probably where she works, but should I wait to talk to her then (if the chance even comes)? I know I'm being impatient with this bc I really want to get to know this girl, but I just don't wanna seem like I went home and stalked around on facebook all night to find her. But then again aren't we all facebook stalkers these days?

I don't think adding her on facebook..is stalker-ish..alot of people add all friend requests. You could try adding her and see if she accepts the request. Or you could just try and talk to her when you see her again at the place she works..either way...best wishes to you.