dream2nite Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 What would you consider the worst breakup for someone on the other side that has given up relationships or money for you?
Sparty97 Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 If you gave up anything for your partner that's on you.
Author dream2nite Posted May 27, 2011 Author Posted May 27, 2011 Thank you for the great reply. Although short, it was helpful. If you gave up anything for your partner that's on you.
Ms. Joolie Posted May 27, 2011 Posted May 27, 2011 (edited) I don't understand the question. There is Bill and there is Jane. Bill use to be a multi-million dollar mogul with ten lovers, but he gave it all up for Jane. Jane took his money and he gave up his playboy lifestyle to marry Jane. But now Bill has fallen out of love with Jane because Jane abuses Bill. How should Bill break up with Jane? And what is the worst cardinal sin? Edited May 27, 2011 by Ms. Joolie
Author dream2nite Posted May 28, 2011 Author Posted May 28, 2011 When u end a relationship, what would you consider to be more hurtful to the other person? Would it be worse to hurt someone knowing they've ended relationships for you? or do you think it would be worse to hurt someone knowing they've taken major financial setbacks for you? What would make u feel most guilty?
Feelin Frisky Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 When u end a relationship, what would you consider to be more hurtful to the other person? Would it be worse to hurt someone knowing they've ended relationships for you? or do you think it would be worse to hurt someone knowing they've taken major financial setbacks for you? What would make u feel most guilty? I wouldn't get into that kind of relationship without excluding all others so there would only really be one reason for me breaking it off and that is that she has proved to be unlovable. By unlovable I mean that there are issues of personality, identity and/or mental health which make the grounds for trust and mutual progress impossible. If that were the case it wouldn't matter how much she "sacrificed" because I wouldn't believe that there were one consistent person making that sacrifice--it would just be one of her subsets or her during one phase of a mania. I experienced this myself full tilt--but the nature of my ending wasn't that she sacrificed so much that I had to feel guilty. I never wanted to end it and when I did she had just come into a huge inheritance and we would have been on easy street. I was on the verge of succeeding in my own vocation (had just won a special achievment award on my job which I cleared $25K on) and the ability to have a home fully paid for and money to fill in the cracks toward our greater success would have made for us "having it all". But even with all that I had to close her out. It was HOPELESS because she wasn't anything I could believe. I wouldn't wish this on anyone but I'm sure it must happen a lot.
JaneyAmazed Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 I wouldn't get into that kind of relationship without excluding all others so there would only really be one reason for me breaking it off and that is that she has proved to be unlovable. By unlovable I mean that there are issues of personality, identity and/or mental health which make the grounds for trust and mutual progress impossible. If that were the case it wouldn't matter how much she "sacrificed" because I wouldn't believe that there were one consistent person making that sacrifice--it would just be one of her subsets or her during one phase of a mania. I experienced this myself full tilt--but the nature of my ending wasn't that she sacrificed so much that I had to feel guilty. I never wanted to end it and when I did she had just come into a huge inheritance and we would have been on easy street. I was on the verge of succeeding in my own vocation (had just won a special achievment award on my job which I cleared $25K on) and the ability to have a home fully paid for and money to fill in the cracks toward our greater success would have made for us "having it all". But even with all that I had to close her out. It was HOPELESS because she wasn't anything I could believe. I wouldn't wish this on anyone but I'm sure it must happen a lot. Hey Feeling Frisky - Sorry this is random. Your picture looks sort of like Charlie Sheen.
Feelin Frisky Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Hey Feeling Frisky - Sorry this is random. Your picture looks sort of like Charlie Sheen. I was here first. (I'm a good 6 inches taller too).
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