anotherbrokenheart Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 My husband and I were technically seperated. Living apart after he felt like we could no longer live together since we struggled to get along during daily things. Even tho its been a year we never stopped seeing each other, loving each other, being the one we always went to. Texts, calls, sometimes he stayed with me for weeks at a time. Just four weeks ago he told me he loved me and suggested counselling. Then we had an arguement, bad, i ended up taking alot of sadness andfrustration at being left, and being up in the air for so long out on him. i was really mad and now im so sorry:( Then 5 days later i find out he is talking to someone else, and since i get the phone bill i can see its TONS of texts and hours of phone calls. He admitted talking to someone, and that he 'likes' her. And told me he will never come 'home'. Now he wont answer my texts or my calls despite telling me hed always be there if i needed someone. And i dont want to look anymore stupid and keep trying. Ive done that for too long. I cant even get into the whole story here now im so fr%^(%^% upset. Its been 3 days. I feel like im dying I cant get past it, I cant stop thinking of him with her, what they talk about, what she looks like, what she has that i dont. Who she is, how they met. I cant eat I cant sleep, I cant stop shaking and crying i cant function. I have no one to talk to. I dont know what to do. I know hes not worth this, but i still love him. i feel so used How do i stop thinking about him and her and f%$^% WHY???
Mauschen Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 I know it's hard, but it is now time to work on yourself and leave him alone. Figure out how to control your temper, go work-out, get some new clothes, read some self-help books, go out with friends, etc. Time will heal you. And if you work on yourself, your next relationship will go better. Do you have children together? I assume not since he is not answering your calls/texts.
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