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How much space should I give this girl I like? Am I doing something wrong?


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We've been talking for about a month. We've gone on a couple dates and we have great chemistry together in person but she seems really distant via text or when I talk to her on the phone and she rarely gets back to me when I send her messages via text or her phone. Her ex bf and her broke up about a month ago and I'm trying to give her space but I really like her. I treat her with respect and I respect her boundaries. I treat her like a princess on dates and in person.

 

We've kissed a few times but she doesn't seem like she wants to hang out with me outside of seeing her in person. I got her a little something for her birthday a couple weeks ago. It was a little plush animal(her favorite animal) and a cd she really likes but didn't have.

 

The only time I've actually hung out or seen her other than our two dates is that we work together. I get to talk to her a little bit then but she doesn't initiate anything. She never calls me or texts me. I either call or text her every couple days, mix it up sometimes, to see how she is and how her day went.

 

I just hate that I'm giving so much into this and trying to make this a relationship and it doesn't seem like she is giving me the same effort or even likes me. I'm just really confused.

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We've kissed a few times but she doesn't seem like she wants to hang out with me outside of seeing her in person.

 

You should give her infinite space, as she is not interested in you.

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