Jcballet Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 I need your opinions & advice please! (men & women) Background Info- Met online-texted/call/Skyped for about 5 weeks although not consistent, more infrequent) HE initiated contact w/ me... Just met in person on Thursday-but met at his house & we didn't get to talk much bc we fell asleep. But both were comfortable. He texted me Thursday, Friday & Saturday. (hoping I have a great day or that my day was good) Sunday he texted me in a response saying "no worries. Hope ur having a good day" He mentioned when I left we would do dinner some time Here's the issue- On Friday (day after 1st meet) he took his profile visibility off Sunday, it is back up, 3 new pics, changed age range he is seeking from 23-49 to 30-49 (I am 24). Change headline from "Only days left" (he changed it to that b4 I moved to the city) to "Giving this 150% email me if you want to meet a humble & outstanding person" Question-Do I still have a chance with him? Should I text him or email him something like I hope we get a chance to get to know each other since we don't really get to on Thursday? What did I do wrong? What would make him change his mind between Saturday AM & Sunday?? I understand keeping his options open since we are not exclusive but he changed the age range? I would think that he could at least be direct & honest, but maybe not? Is he no longer interested? Trying to double check what's out there before pursuing me? I am so confused. Should I wait another day or 3 before texting him? What can I do? Anything? I REALLY like him. Thank you!!
Author Jcballet Posted May 23, 2011 Author Posted May 23, 2011 Could it be that maybe He thinks I personally am too young? Or maybe encountered someone else that is too young?? Is it a jab against ME or maybe he not liking OTHER young women? Maybe both?
utterer of lies Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Could it be that maybe He thinks I personally am too young? Or maybe encountered someone else that is too young?? Is it a jab against ME or maybe he not liking OTHER young women? Maybe both? Or maybe he's just messing with your mind on purpose so he can more easily extract sex from you.
creighton0123 Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Have you discussed a monogamous relationship? If not, he isn't tied down. It's not all too uncommon to go out on multiple dates with different people when you are online dating. Question isn't whether you have a chance... but whether he does. You are in control here. Only go out on another date if you're interested in another date.
aboheleven Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 honestly that's shady to me. I would see if he pursues and go on with your life.
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