MissMoni Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Hi all, Well, I finally did it - graduated from college today! If you have been following my threads, then you may already know my story in how I was worried about seeing my ex. Well, I did. It was with my parents so it was even more awkward. Anyway, long story short, he told me he was coming for graduation weekend, but really made no attempt to try to see me. He apparently scheduled a fb event with our mutual friends to "see them off". Of course, I wasn't invited to the private event. This does make sense, seeing as the person he was with is not really a guy I get along with. Anyway, I saw him, and we didn't really get a chance to talk, just hug. I sent him a text basically saying I enjoyed seeing him and hoped he had a good weekend and to have safe travels back to his state (I know. Idiot move.) He texted me back, said thank you, and then said he hoped I had a good weekend and most weirdly that it was a "shame" we didn't get to see eachother this weekend. Why would he write this when he didn't even try to see me?! He then replied that we should "catch up later" because he has an early trip in the morning. I know. I really shouldn't have texted or even made an indication I care. But the fact is, I do care. I haven't seen him since before we broke up (We've been broken up 7 months, he broke up with me over the phone, making the last time I saw him 8 months ago.) I just feel like an idiot not being over him already. We only dated for little over a year and a half. And yet, I couldn't help being excited to see him. I miss him and wish things had ended better, but I feel like 8 months is now too late. In any case, I know that I need to just stop while I'm ahead. Any advice to me about this? It's a little scary to think all of the hard work I did was undid simply by seeing him for one time for literally a minute.
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