ooopnut4 Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 soooooo i havent been on here in like a year and a half you can look at my old posts for backstory. (dated for 3 years left for someone else). so yesterday i get an email on facebook from her saying this: So I ran into a few people over the last couple of months and pretty much all of them said that you had some not so great things to say about me.. and you're right. I know this is long overdue and probably doesn't mean anything at this point but I just want you to know that I'm sorry. I'm sorry for all the crap I put you through toward the end. You were my best friend for a looong time and you didn't deserve any of the things I did to you. I hope everything is going well with you and that you're happy... why after 2 years i get this.. i think shes still with the dude i dont know. so after mulling on it for a day i wrote this: kind of dont know what to say at all..the whole thing was like the hardest thing I ever dealt with and its tough to think about. You were the best friend I've ever had and then you were just gone so I guess this is all I wanted you to realize..only took you like 2 years haha..so thanks I guess. Why now though? I dont know who or what Ive said to anybody so sorry if it was stupid stuff. after being sad i was angry for a while. anyways I'm good now and GO METS http://static.ak.fbcdn.net/images/blank.gif (baseball was our thing she loves the yankees so i figured id be cute and throw that in.) should i have even responded? or responded differently? im so flustered and now keep checking to see if she writed back, ughhhh help
coltsfan1 Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 responding was fine, I don't know if I would have asked why or told her how hard it was to still think about. But you shouldn't feel bad for being honest, even though she wasn't. Just take comfort in the fact that she has now realized her mistake and if there is more contact tread lightly my friend!!
smudge21 Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 It's a tough call as I truly believe in responding in kind - she's made an effort to heal some old wounds she caused, but if it still hurts then you do have to think about yourself first. She left for someone else so many will say she doesn't deserve your attention, but if you are totally moved on then why hold a grudge. If you have no intention of ever seeing her again, then reply back and forgive her, but make it clear you don't want to get back together. She had her chance and blew it, but you're no longer angry about it. You've healed and moved on. She's opened that door, just decide what it is you want and then decide whether to step through.
nana841121 Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 she is doing the confessing part. If you want to forgive and forget the pains she had brought up to you, send her a modestly polite mail and that's it
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