sunshine suki Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 (edited) Hi everyone! Long story short: After a one year smooth relationship (in which I gave my heart and soul), my boyfriend called it quit because I had 'the talk' with him on commitment. Wow! After a pretty emotional break up, he asked for us to stay friends and I said yes. Eventhough I accepted the friendship request, I went NC from day one after the break up. I really had no interest in talking with him or seeing him. I just needed to heal and get rational. During a month, he called me a couple of times and ask me to hang out with him, which I refused, it was way too soon. He really was excited about this 'friend' thing but I was never contacting him. It seemed to me that it was just a mean to string me along and get the freedom and me at the same time. The last call I received was this week, around 11 p.m. and he suggested to come at my place to pick his things up. I said that he absolutely could pick his things up, but that it was too late that day and that he could come during the week-end. During this call, I also told him that I didn't want to remain friends with him even though I've previously accepted his friendship when we broke up. I saw that it was not working because I needed to heal. He seemed pretty disappointed and asked if we could be friends in the future.. I said I didn't know. He agreed on picking up his things this week-end and ultimately, he never called or showed up. I'm asking myself.. why?! To string me along, some kind of revenge, he is insulted, to get a reaction from me.. I don't get it.. Thanks for your help! Edited May 23, 2011 by sunshine suki
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