Sacred-Self Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Hello LS community, Dating, finding someone special, being in love, marrying, etc. Sounds like it's alot about two people which it is, But clearing the way for a succesfull love life has everything to do with you. What I mean to say is that in order to find someone good, you got to clear your own gutters. You got to be tight with yourself. Question A are you looking for a relationship right now to complete you or make you feel better about yourself if so then you will probably find all the wrong people. Honestly ask yourself this question I find that 95% of the dating failures result because of this major mistake. Another common error is do you find yourself becoming attached to people and spending time with them in your "head" early on. For instance, you've been on two dates and you begin planning out somewhat of a future with this person in your life. Another huge mistake. Avoid leaping to any sort of conclusions instead stay present in your own life and let things fall into place if they have a natural affinity to. Failure to relax and enjoy dating is the third biggest mistake. Especially for people who are rebounding or "seeking love" don't seek love, seeking love means deep down inside you are trying to fulfill yourself with an external thing (impossible). Be love, be happy don't make dating a high stakes game, it's already complicated enough as it is you don't have to make it something you're happiness depends on. The more you are able to take it less seriously, the more you are able to enjoy it and be present without jumping to conclusions and expecting things the better your dating will be.
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