Nicki1986 Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 My boyfriend and I have been together fro almost 3 years. We have two kids together but we are not married. Our relationship has been pretty rocky since we met....a whole lot if fussing and fights. When i was pregnant with my first child he cheated on me and when mt first born was about 4 months i found an email in his sent mail. The email was to a transexual tellin him his name age and location. He told the tranny that he wouldnt mind coming down to where he was to have some fun. When i seen the email thats all i could do is cry. I was disgusted!!! About 5 months later i found some text coming to his lil brotha phone while my boyfriend was at work. the message said that her name was Ms. stacy and she gave her number. she also was telling him how much she charge a hour...for what? i dont know. I guessed sex. I confronted him about it and he blamed it on his little brother. Since he had history for writing a tranny on craiglist i looked on craiglist in the area the num was in a there goes Ms. Stacy. I wasnt shocked because i knew what this was all about. i didnt get to match the number because he erased it but the names matched. his excuse for the first tranny was that he was going to rob the person. I dont believe him but i do love him. He recently told me that he was curious on how a tranny look in person when i asked y he didnt pick a female to rob. Y a tranny? i dont know what to do. I dont want to marry someone who is living a double life behind my back and i have two kids to live for. I dont want to catch HIV from him just because of the way he choose to live. PLEASE HELP ME.
Jazzari Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 He cheated on you. He is meeting up with transexuals He is paying for sex He robs people?? He lies to you. He is putting you in danger of disease You fight alot And all this has been going on for 3 years If you don't want this life for yourself or your children, then you need to end the relationship. He's not going to change. 1
DunkinSheek Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Wow. Not sure what to say when "I was just going to rob the person" is the "get out of jail free" excuse that he believes will get him out of trouble with you (short of being busted for planning a murder or rape). Why would he think that doing so would be OK in your eyes? Yes, in addition to being a scumbag thief/mugger, he apparently is bi-sexual at least. Hopefully, he's been safe, but my $$ is that he has not been. Get yourself tested. Good luck to the poor kids. Dang.
ladyinlimbo Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 My boyfriend and I have been together fro almost 3 years. We have two kids together but we are not married. Our relationship has been pretty rocky since we met....a whole lot if fussing and fights. When i was pregnant with my first child he cheated on me and when mt first born was about 4 months i found an email in his sent mail. The email was to a transexual tellin him his name age and location. He told the tranny that he wouldnt mind coming down to where he was to have some fun. When i seen the email thats all i could do is cry. I was disgusted!!! About 5 months later i found some text coming to his lil brotha phone while my boyfriend was at work. the message said that her name was Ms. stacy and she gave her number. she also was telling him how much she charge a hour...for what? i dont know. I guessed sex. I confronted him about it and he blamed it on his little brother. Since he had history for writing a tranny on craiglist i looked on craiglist in the area the num was in a there goes Ms. Stacy. I wasnt shocked because i knew what this was all about. i didnt get to match the number because he erased it but the names matched. his excuse for the first tranny was that he was going to rob the person. I dont believe him but i do love him. He recently told me that he was curious on how a tranny look in person when i asked y he didnt pick a female to rob. Y a tranny? i dont know what to do. I dont want to marry someone who is living a double life behind my back and i have two kids to live for. I dont want to catch HIV from him just because of the way he choose to live. PLEASE HELP ME. Why did you go on to have another child with him after he cheated on you while you were pregnant with your first? See this is the mistake that so many young women make; their guy proves he's a horse's a$$ but they remain with him and go on to bring more innocent children into the relationship, thereby being even more connected and dependent on his sorry a$$. So he claims the tranny thing was because he was curious about how a tranny looked.....but also was planning to "rob" the tranny? Well what a fine upstanding citizen, and role model to your children (course I don't believe he was planning to rob the tranny but what kind of person would lie and claim they were going to rob someone?) And the thing with the message from Ms Stacy - you say that came into his little brother's phone? Well then what did that have to do with your boyfriend? Did they share a phone or something? It's doubtful that he's gay but he could be bisexual or have a thing for transvestites.......and it is very possible that he's been with them and let's be real here, people offering sex on Craiglist aren't exactly squeaky clean, I'm sure. If I was you, I would seriously start by making an appointment with a doctor and getting yourself test for everything; including Herpes and HIV. I say including because sometimes standard STD testing doesn't include these. The testing for Herpes would need to include a bloodtest because that's the only way to test for it if a person doesn't have an obvious outbreak. And ask about testing for HPV, too. And while you're sorting this out, do not sleep with him under any circumstances....not even with a condom because they're not 100% protection from STDs.......plus the last thing you need now is to get pregnant again with this clown. Yes yes, you love him......but you have to put the love for your children before him and anything. Do you have family to turn to if you left him? A place you and your kids could stay?
alexlakeman Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Dis here iz interesting peep this sh)t. What hood iz he from peep ? Yo he's going ta rob someone? Does he habe a gat? Yo He's salad tosser aka "he's gay!
TigerCub Posted May 24, 2011 Posted May 24, 2011 Why did you go on to have another child with him after he cheated on you while you were pregnant with your first? See this is the mistake that so many young women make; their guy proves he's a horse's a$$ but they remain with him and go on to bring more innocent children into the relationship, thereby being even more connected and dependent on his sorry a$$. Exactly what I was wondering. I honestly can't understand why people do such irresponsible things like that.
Skump Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 When the father of your children is trying to comfort you with the explanation that soliciting a sex worker was merely part of his con to rob her, you have way, way bigger problems than the possibility that he likes chicks with dicks. Sister, set your sneakers to Warp Factor 9.
Memphis Raines Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 My boyfriend and I have been together fro almost 3 years. We have two kids together but we are not married. Our relationship has been pretty rocky since we met....a whole lot if fussing and fights. When i was pregnant with my first child he cheated on me and when mt first born was about 4 months i found an email in his sent mail. The email was to a transexual tellin him his name age and location. He told the tranny that he wouldnt mind coming down to where he was to have some fun. yup, he is gay alright. gay, bi, whatever you want to call it. bottom line is, he wants beans and a frank for liunch.
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