Butchannon Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 She cheated on me with dozens of guys, gave me 2 STDs and took away my child who I can only see for couple of hours a week! I had to take DNA to find out that child is mine. She is totally unremorseful and she doesn't have any consequences at all! Her parents are totally on her side. Where is any justice...
y2k Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 She cheated on me with dozens of guys, gave me 2 STDs and took away my child who I can only see for couple of hours a week! I had to take DNA to find out that child is mine. She is totally unremorseful and she doesn't have any consequences at all! Her parents are totally on her side. Where is any justice... You didn't exactly mention if you divorced her yet. Hopefully you did. Usually with the child thing, judges will only give the kids to the father if the father can prove that the kids themselves are in grave danger with the mother. The fact that she's been a BEYOND TERRIBLE wife isn't enough to get a judge to get them to you. Most guys have to put up with that in a divorce. Although I'd see a lawyer about trying to see the kids on a more frequent basis. A woman like that is bound to run into a man who will give her everything she gave you only worse. My only advice is to be the best father to your child as possible, and to MOVE ON IN LIFE. Find a woman who will love you and you her. It's not easy, but it's "do-able". Consider yourself lucky that this tramp of an ex-wife of yours is no longer your wife. Good luck.
Author Butchannon Posted May 22, 2011 Author Posted May 22, 2011 You didn't exactly mention if you divorced her yet. Hopefully you did. Usually with the child thing, judges will only give the kids to the father if the father can prove that the kids themselves are in grave danger with the mother. The fact that she's been a BEYOND TERRIBLE wife isn't enough to get a judge to get them to you. Most guys have to put up with that in a divorce. Although I'd see a lawyer about trying to see the kids on a more frequent basis. A woman like that is bound to run into a man who will give her everything she gave you only worse. My only advice is to be the best father to your child as possible, and to MOVE ON IN LIFE. Find a woman who will love you and you her. It's not easy, but it's "do-able". Consider yourself lucky that this tramp of an ex-wife of yours is no longer your wife. Good luck. I haven't married her yet but sadly she became pregnant with me and now I am tied on her for the next 18 years at least. Visitations are in her place since there is too much distance between us. Her parents treated me badly because I told her to leave and they encourage her to fill for custody and child support two days after I told her to leave. They told me they suffered because of me. WTF?! Who is crazy here? She had sex with half of town and put my life in danger with STDs! F*** those kind of people! I paid for our apartment, food, everything... And she didn't tell me she cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship for whole two years we lived together! Her family don't talk to me because they are mad with me. Funny, really. But I just don't bother.
bentnotbroken Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 I haven't married her yet but sadly she became pregnant with me and now I am tied on her for the next 18 years at least. Visitations are in her place since there is too much distance between us. Her parents treated me badly because I told her to leave and they encourage her to fill for custody and child support two days after I told her to leave. They told me they suffered because of me. WTF?! Who is crazy here? She had sex with half of town and put my life in danger with STDs! F*** those kind of people! I paid for our apartment, food, everything... And she didn't tell me she cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship for whole two years we lived together! Her family don't talk to me because they are mad with me. Funny, really. But I just don't bother. Sounds like her sense of entitlement is a direct result of her parents NOT doing their job, then or now. Sorry you and your child are the one's made to suffer for this.
Author Butchannon Posted May 22, 2011 Author Posted May 22, 2011 Her father has also cheated on her mother with neighbour. So it is in the family. Her mother also told her to be proud and not to go in counseling with me because it would look like she was groveling. Because she is a woman her parents also told her that she shouldn't go to my place only I should go to their place every week and showed them how much I loved her. When I came to their place the day after I told her to leave her father said I have got only five minutes to see my child and then he kicked me out in the night, rain and snow and I had nowhere to go. Just because I told her to leave from MY apartment. They said I was cruel and not a human. WTF?? And then they told me I should behave differently. She also told me that I should be happy because she talked to me since all village now knows what a bitch she is. She said I ruined her image of a good girl. Her mother also hates me because of that. And because I was in such a shock I apologized to them for telling her to leave and they said they won't talk to me. WHAT the f*ck was wrong with me to apologize them?? What for?? They said they were hurt. My daughter doesn't know who I am and how to call me. F*ck that crazy people!
TMCM Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 (edited) You need to find an attorney and aggressively demand your rights as a father even if it means that you have to use a scorched earth tactic against your ex. Edited May 22, 2011 by TMCM eta
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