Nexus0 Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 So, I was a bit put off by this, and was looking for some opinions. I met this girl with whom I hit it off and we had a date, sex, good times. It's on week three and she is interested in just keeping things this way, but keeps asking me what my "personal truth" is, and when I ask her to be more specific she says I am dodging the question... Does anyone else think that's a bit of a high pressure question to be asking someone in the middle of a crowded NYC restaurant? Or just plain not fun? I answered it best I could, citing whatever random facts I could about myself because I am really not sure about how she wants that answered. Also I kinda feel embarrassed vocalizing personal truths in such a place, I would rather we had fun eating pancakes. Thoughts and opinions? Thank you.
Sabali Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 Also I kinda feel embarrassed vocalizing personal truths in such a place, I would rather we had fun eating pancakes. Thoughts and opinions? Thank you. Exactly. You said it all here. Why couldn't she just let you guys have some fun? She should learn to not pull out this pseudo-deep $#it on dates. Just enjoy the pancakes and laugh!
Jazzari Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 What is "personal truth"? I've never heard that term used before.
Author Nexus0 Posted May 23, 2011 Author Posted May 23, 2011 I dunno, that's why I was so "stuck" trying to answer, and when I was talking about what is "truth" in this context, she said I was avoiding the question... it was all quite polite, but, still.. strange.
sanskrit Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Reminds me of that old Depeche Mode song "Personal Jesus." When they ask this nonsense, deflect and reflect. "I'm having a hard time figuring out what you mean, what's your personal tooth, erm I mean truth?"
Sivok Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Sounds like a philosophical type. Is she an indie/artsie/hipster type? If so, that's the definition of a **** test that you just went through
Author Nexus0 Posted May 23, 2011 Author Posted May 23, 2011 hmm, never thought about that one.. a philosophical **** test? I handle **** test well, but never thought about it that way. She is a teacher/has 3 master degrees, but no focus type, so she makes the same amount of money I do, and I work in a restaurant.
carhill Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 I would rather we had fun eating pancakes. This is your personal truth. Profound in its simplicity.
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