She asked for a break, and said ok. Now i need your support to stay on track, !

[tokito21]

We met 3 months ago, went out on a date and then she excused herself out because she had emotional problems. I said it's fine and remained a friend. A month later she came to one of my concerts (i'm a singer) and after i got of stage she came over and said that she was ready for a relationship. So i said ok and we hooked up, one week later she broke up by SMS. I got upset, but dealt with it in a very adult manner. the very next day, she saw me at a party with another girl, she got jealous and admitted it. Next day we had a nice talk, and decided to move into the relationship. We have been together almost one month, but had few fights during the time. But we are love birds no doubt at all!

Two nights ago, she got a phone call from a drunk guy friend at 3 am, she asked me if it's ok to take the call and i said yes. Few minutes into her call i freak out on her and we have a fight. She take a 20 minuted car drive in which i call and beg her to come back. She comes back and asks for a break for few days. I say i did a terrible mistake and i will take responsibility for my acts and accept the break. we sleep for the rest of the night and next morning we have a nice talk in the morning and says that she still needs the break. I say i think it is good for both of us, gather my stuff and before i leave she hugs and kisses me and say's i'll call you. I say sure and leave, i directly go to her best friends place and explain what happens and ask her to please good mouth me if my girl asks her for advise (because all her friends love me a lot). her friend agrees.

Same day, at night time i call her and ask if she can drop by my protein shake. She says yes of course and does in 30 minutes. When she arrives, before i went down to her car i call her best friend to se if she talked to her. Her best friend says that she did but briefly and that my girl is upset that i shouted in her face and now scared i may be one of those guys.

I go down to her car to pick the pack up and we talk for 3 minutes )in which i'm smiling as look happy, not overdoing it). we just talk about her day and normal things. then i leave back to my apartment and from there initial No Contact rule.

Next day (yesterday) i stick to my rule and move on with my day (very hardly). At 12 midnight last night she sent me the following message:

"Hi TK, I hope you are fine and happy and hopeful in the things you are doing. I just wanna let you know that i am alright, feeling better and will call you in a few days. Good night and sweet dreams... ur goofball"

 

I did not reply and stayed in my NC zone. I haven't heard from her all day today.

 

I know that usually a break means she wants to break up, and i probably messed up well. And we only hooked up a month ago...

 

But what do you advise me to do? i will definitely stick to my NC rule, because i want to show her that i respect her space and that i am a real man who can move on with his life without her. Although i know i want her back in my life so badly.

 

I am also considering to ignore her first few texts and phone calls completely. Just to get her on an edge that she may have lost me with her break decision.

 

the plan is not play games on her, but have her back for a long term and not for short relaxing time while she refuels of my love and then leaves again on the first fight!

 

What do you think of this plan? is it a good one? or should i just accept her first call because i know i did a mistake and our relation has not become too strong to play hard to get games??

 

constructive advises are really appreciated...