Glove_slap Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 Its been almost a year since my first love of three years broke up with me and started dating a new guy. I always find myself thinking about her, especially now that I'm losing all my friends its so hard being alone and every time I look to the sky memories of us come rushing back, every time I close my eyes I hear her laughter echoing in some cryptic haunting way. How can I cope with being so alone? Every time I think I'm over her some feelings always rush back no matter how hard I try. I just can't shake it..I feel so left out and unwanted by everyone.. - They guy she started dating after me ended up being a drug trafficker along with her "best friend" that always tried to push her into the wrong crowd (hes in his 20s) So I guess I'm not as bad as him and the grass isn't completely greener but shes still with him and I guess is in love. That or the sex is just amazing...
smudge21 Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 There's no time limit for getting over someone - everyone deals with it differently. You say your friends are leaving, what does that mean and why aren't you leaving with them, or finding new friends. Clearly something is missing in your life if you feel so alone, and being alone ALWAYS leads to us thinking about the ex. First step is to sort out this loneliness. Do something that's going to get you a new group of friends or at least a group you have something in common with (coming here's a good start).
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