LarsenB Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 There's this woman that I started talking to at the gym about three months ago. She's gorgeous and quite intimidating, honestly. I'm not 100% sure how old she is, but I'd say she's in her mid to late 30s, and I'm in my late 20s. I've been seeing her work out in there over the last three years or so, but we had never spoken until just recently. In all the time that I've seen her there, I had never seen her speak to anyone, and I had seen few people even approach her (she's that beautiful and intimidating, let me tell you). The guys that did approach her, however, were shot down immediately. In her defense, the guys that approach her are corny, cheesy, and clueless, and she can obviously see right through them. Anyway, one day while she was working out, I could tell she needed some help but didn't want to ask anyone, so I offered my assistance. From there, we began taking a little bit more each time I saw her. Long story short, over the last three months, she has slowly become friends with my friends from the gym. She's taken the initiative to approach my friends and be friendly to them. So for the past three years, I've never seen her talk to anyone, then we start talking, and within three months, she's talking to me and all of my friends. The funny thing is that she doesn't talk to anyone that I don't talk to, only people I'm close with. She has told me that she has a lot of guy friends because she doesn't like the drama that women bring, but her best friend is a woman, whom she introduced me to a few weeks ago. She's also given me her phone number ... I didn't ask for it, nor had I planned on it. SO ... most of the time, this would be obvious to me, but I'm not familiar with deciphering the actions of a woman who's probably close to 40. I don't know if she's single, but I know she's not married, and if she isn't single, she's never talked about a boyfriend. I guess the fact that she has a lot of guy friends is throwing me off, but am I wrong in thinking she is interested in me? I mean, the only people she talks to are MY friends, she introduced me to her best girl friend, and she gave me her number.
confused611 Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 yes i definitely think she's interested. no girl gives you her number voluntarily without you even asking, unless a) she wants you to use it, or b) she thinks you're gay. plus, i've definitely done the befriending friends thing. definitely an indication i'm interested in the guy.
ladyinlimbo Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Not really sure if her befriending your friends is of any real significance for you....could be just that she's learned that you're a 'decent guy' as opposed to the usual parasites and smooth talking players who've tried hitting her up there before..and she's actually relieved to be able to talk to people and because you've proven to be good people, she figures your friends would likely be good people, too......AND not likely to hit on her because she might sense you're interested. The fact that she gave you her # is what's significant. From how you described her, she doesn't sound like someone who just passes her # out to many. Give her a call......set up a meet.....go for coffee, a quick drink, walk through a local park (as long as it's not isolated because she might be wigged out to to that lol) and get some ice cream....etc. Try to be a little original maybe? Keep it short unless you meet and really connect. You want to sort of play it a little cool as she's no doubt used to craploads of men hitting on her and she will be more intrigued if she senses you're "different" (in a good way). Keep us posted.
Author LarsenB Posted May 22, 2011 Author Posted May 22, 2011 I was thinking along the same lines about her giving me her number. She is obviously picky about who she talks to, so I doubt she would give it to just anyone; however, the whole thing about her having a lot of guy friends made me question things. Like "did she do that because she's interested?" or "did she do that because that's what she does with all of her guy friends?" And is the fact that she introduced me to her best female friend significant?
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