max1234 Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 I split up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago. She recently had become very paranoid, we had a big argument, alot of mean stuff was brought up and said, and i ended it. The next day i regretted it immediatly, tried to contact her, she said she needed space and we didnt talk for a week and a bit. Over the last few weeks we have spoken by text, and apple chat and couple of phone calls. Last night we discussed about what happened breifly and she told me how hurt she was, how much she loved me. I told her how stupid i was, how ive had time to grow up, get my exams done and really thought about what i want. We have agreed to meet up in a few days once her exams are out of the way. This is basically to discuss what happens next. Ive heard from a pretty unreliable source that she still loves me, but could not get back together with me. Im in despair, i want her back so much, im unsure how to play it when we meet. i know she still loves me, and she is willing to here me out. I know i have a chance, albeit a very slim chance, of getting her back. I just not sure what to do/say/act. Advice would be much appreciated.
Popondetta Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 (edited) A) She's paranoid B) You broke up with her This means that you probably have to do a lot of reassurance about why you see the realtionship working if you got back together again. You need to just tell her how you feel and let go of pride etc. Open up and be very clear about what you want. But you also have to realize that if you get back together again it would be a process that wont happen over night, and tell her that. Well, this is just my advice.. Can't really promise that it works... But the best of luck to you!!! (PS! Are you REALLY sure you want her back?) Edited May 22, 2011 by Popondetta
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