max1234 Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 I split up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago. She recently had become very paranoid, we had a big argument, alot of mean stuff was brought up and said, and i ended it. The next day i regretted it immediatly, tried to contact her, she said she needed space and we didnt talk for a week and a bit. Over the last few weeks we have spoken by text, and apple chat and couple of phone calls. Last night we discussed about what happened breifly and she told me how hurt she was, how much she loved me. I told her how stupid i was, how ive had time to grow up, get my exams done and really thought about what i want. We have agreed to meet up in a few days once her exams are out of the way. This is basically to discuss what happens next. Ive heard from a pretty unreliable source that she still loves me, but could not get back together with me. Im in despair, i want her back so much, im unsure how to play it when we meet. i know she still loves me, and she is willing to here me out. I know i have a chance, albeit a very slim chance, of getting her back. I just not sure what to do/say/act. Advice would be much appreciated.
Kilty Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 (edited) I dont think you are at the stage yet where you need to post the whole details of your relationship and the reasons behind the breakup as from what you have posted i think you will be fine. Sources are very unreliable - its an age old tactic of getting a go between to tell the other half that they are not willing to try again - very good reverse psychology. However if i was you i would use the time between now and the meet up to think what you "really" want and whether the issues that caused the break up are going to be there when you get back together. As for the meet up - loads will give you advice on what to do say - but the reality is you will know yourself how to react - after all nobody knows this girl better than you. Just be yourself and dont put on any acts. Be sincere and honest without being a blubbering wreck. Its kind of cold advice but the power lies with the person that needs the relationship the least. Do not act on that advice - just remember it for safety Edited May 21, 2011 by Kilty
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