DreamerGirl27 Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 this bad ass rocker dude who totally hangs out with way too many girls
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 He was open, honest, blunt, hilarious, cute, athletic, and musical. :love: Too bad my awkward teen years were a bit more awkward than most, imo. Note: he was not tall. 5'8''. And I was completely head over heels.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 My last serious boyfriend. So good looking, sexy as sin, maniac in bed, total fireball, amazing guitar player. I had some of the funnest times of my life with him -- definitely in bed (and other places). He rocked my world. The main reason I asked him NOT to contact me when I broke up with him is that I knew I would find it extremely hard to resist him, period.
4blossoms Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Definitely my last boyfriend too. He was this weird combination bad boy/systems administrator who programmed in unix yet constantly needed an adrenaline fix and drove his motorcycle everywhere. Obsessed with soccer and athletic as all heck too, which made him the longest lasting guy I've ever been with... He was crazy though, cheated constantly, and his friends were messed up and scary too, so I had to give him the boot. Current guy I'm mad about isn't my boyfriend (but I'm praying he will be!), has beautiful eyes and this detached coolness a la James Dean without the motorcycles or excessive machismo. He's lovely but not mine, so can't comment on his bedroom skills
Eeyore79 Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 He was blond and blue eyed, and was muscular and fit because he played on a sports team. He was also extremely smart (he had a PhD). A handsome doctor is pretty much every woman's fantasy - all my girlfriends raved about how gorgeous and perfect he was (or seemed to be when you first met him). He was also a selfish lying cheater, so I guess attractiveness is not enough to make a relationship last.
denise_xo Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 A Persian guy I met over a decade ago. He just totally floored me in absolutely every respect - extremely hot and sexy, absolutely beautiful features, highly intelligent, superb communicator, very well read with an interest in so many aspects of life, with a very sophisticated sensitivity and a delicate gentleness. And the most beautiful eyes I've seen on any man in my entire life. Aahh :love:
Author bluenightowl Posted May 21, 2011 Author Posted May 21, 2011 lots of bad boy qualities and nice guy qualities mentioned to date. Bad boy qualities - - bad ass rocker with who hangs out with lots of women - sexy as sin, maniac in bed - crazy though, cheated constantly - detached coolness a la James Dean - muscular and fit - selfish lying cheater Nice guy qualities - - open, honest, hilarious, cute - funnest times of my life with him - extremely smart - Genius comedian - superb communicator, very well read - very sophisticated sensitivity and a delicate gentleness
Cee Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Don't think of people like George Carlin or Patton Oswalt as having "nice guy qualities."
Titania22 Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Don't think of people like George Carlin or Patton Oswalt as having "nice guy qualities." In his defence I wasn't thinking of them when I wrote Genius Comedian
denise_xo Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 lots of bad boy qualities and nice guy qualities mentioned to date. Bad boy qualities - - bad ass rocker with who hangs out with lots of women - sexy as sin, maniac in bed - crazy though, cheated constantly - detached coolness a la James Dean - muscular and fit - selfish lying cheater Nice guy qualities - - open, honest, hilarious, cute - funnest times of my life with him - extremely smart - Genius comedian - superb communicator, very well read - very sophisticated sensitivity and a delicate gentleness I don't buy into the bad guy/nice guy distinction to begin with, but if we're going to go with that I definitely object to 'sexy' being a bad guy quality. Lots of so called 'nice guys' are totally sexy.
Mrlonelyone Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 No but George Carlin was Mr. Conductor on "shining time station" (A childrens program). http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zU56DDjPjf4
Art_Critic Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 (edited) No but George Carlin was Mr. Conductor on "shining time station" (A childrens program). http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zU56DDjPjf4 He is also the voice on all the Thomas the train videos...at least until he died..they have a new voice today Edited May 21, 2011 by Art_Critic
Jazzari Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 My late husband. He was tall, dark hair and eyes and sexy as sin. He gave the impression of bad boy and danger and yet was so loving and caring to me. It was like being married to a whirlwind so not for everyone, but perfect for me. High energy, off the charts intelligent and always up for an adventure. He was also the most loving father - coached our son's little league and was always there when we needed him. Always upbeat and so much fun to simply be around. Never afraid to be a goof and make my son laugh - even in public. He's the only man who's ever made me...uh, skyrocket...from a simple look. He could throw me down one minute and then be so romantic the next that it made my head spin. The fact that he maintained that feeling through 18 years of marriage is astounding. He was truly one of a kind and I miss him so much.
Cee Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 In his defence I wasn't thinking of them when I wrote Genius Comedian For me, I equate genius comedian with unbelievably awesome guy. Nice guy is too generic and bland a term. I wish we'd do away with bad boy/nice guy anyway. Men are more complex that that.
Titania22 Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 For me, I equate genius comedian with unbelievably awesome guy. Nice guy is too generic and bland a term. I wish we'd do away with bad boy/nice guy anyway. Men are more complex that that. So true Ten Characters
Ruby Slippers Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 I wish we'd do away with bad boy/nice guy anyway. Men are more complex that that. I agree. Every man I've been with had some 'nice guy' qualities and some 'bad boy' qualities. Just like somewhere in every woman is a little bit of shy sweetie and a little bit of raging slut. We activate different parts of ourselves at different times, for all kinds of reasons. If your confidence is shaky and you're afraid you won't be loved and accepted, you'll tend to be sweeter/nicer. If you are feeling confident and in charge in the group you're in, you are likely to explore your bad/slut side more. No one is all light or dark.
Ruby Slippers Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 He was truly one of a kind and I miss him so much. He sounds amazing.
cerridwen Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 I met a surfer at Mavericks (a surfing competition in Nor. Cal) who was off the charts hot. My girlfriends and I all spotted him at the same time. Tall, dark hair, blue eyes, he had the whitest teeth offset by his tan. He was funny, smart, and held a good job in Hawaii. We kicked it for two weeks here then met up again in Maui two months later. He had such a confident, easy-going way about him. Guys admired him and seemed to seek his approval. He was very nice, very polite and gracious to people. Dare I say "he was a nice guy".
Darren Taylor Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 who wants to date super hot guys? Too much pressure. I guess the same reason why many guys don't want to date the super hot girls. Good for a shag maybe, but not much more.
TuffCookieX Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 He is a big time NYC fitness model with eyes that made me ruin my panties. I'm a sucker for lean men with big muscles and a chiseled face to go with it, he was everything I could want physically in a man. He used to tell me I was so different from the other girls, he treated me like a princess and brought me around to his friends. The day I let him have it all was the day I found out what a real jerk he was. Some men just know all the right tricks to woo a girl in the sac, I'm just saddened that he led me on for a whole entire month. I exacted my revenge on him a week later. I'm very spiteful.
Jazzari Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 My high school BF was pretty hot - we sort of on-again, off-again dated. He was a surfer. Unfortunately, had a drug problem (sigh). Next to him was Jerry from New Orleans. Jerry was the most beautiful thing in the world. He promptly dumped me after I had sex with him. I think he was seeing another girl. Since then, most guys I date are sort of average looking - who wants to date super hot guys? Too much pressure. I like to sort of be in control of the relationship. Plus, when you're in love, the devil himself becomes the most beautiful thing you've ever seen.I totally agree.
KR10N Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 The good: kind, friendly, good sense of humor, laid back, adorable, nice smile, brown eyes, intelligent, nice build for a 5'9" middle-aged man, one awesome dude! The bad: married, judgmental about his appearance, can sometimes be downright depressed for no reason.
Chitowngirl Posted May 22, 2011 Posted May 22, 2011 Who was he? and what qualities did he have? They both had the LAMEST most boring personalities ever.
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