wreckedhero Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 I have told her I hated her and told her I couldnt name one good thing about her as I wanted her to feel the pain I was feeling. I have constantly told her I wouldnt text her and have broken the promise name calling her. I am sorry that I did this but love makes us do silly things. Anyway to cut a long story short I last texted her on Tuesday apologising for my actions and promising never to text her again unless she texts me. It was 3 weeks on Tuesday since she dumped me. How do I get her back? Is NC the only way to go or should I just move on maintaining NC? What will this achieve?
Lilmisus Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Wow. One great thing I can say about myself and the breakup, is that I refrained from telling him I hated him (promised I would never, no matter what, and so far, I stand true to that promise) and calling him any names (to his face ), unless you count telling him that I thought he was a liar. I don't think it's love that makes us doing "silky" things, it's more along the lines of immaturity and desperation. But I think that unless the "love" you feel towards one another is strong enough, that there really is anything thing you can do to get her back. I know that if a guy said those things to me, and then tried to win me back, I wouldn't give any thought to it - it'd be an absolute no. But honestly, do you really want her back? Especially if you wanted and tried so hard to make her feel as bad as you felt? Love doesn't wish pain upon those that we love. NC can achieve moving on and getting out of being used to having her in your life. You need to move on, but only you and her can decide if NC is the best route to take, since it's not for everyone. If you must, talk to her about it and ask how she feels. If I were her...I'd do NC, and keep it..but that's just me.
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