Div Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Long story short: I saw the cutest girl at the club last night. She was dancing with her friends and I really wanted to initiate something with her. We made eye contact a few times, and when they left the dancefloor and came back they started dancing right next to me. The problem is I felt this huge wall in front of me and her, and I couldnt bring myself to do anything. I feel so stupid now because I could have done something. I dont know why I have this fear of rejection, I suppose women have hurt me in the past. I protect myself far too much from the chance of emotional hurt. But I know I never want to miss that opportunity again. So I ask the guys - what techniques do you have for overcoming that fear? And the ladies - can you sense when a guy wants to talk to you but seems too shy? Is the whole idea of being afraid to talk to a random girl ridiculous?
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