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When a guy tells you he's a bachelor, does that mean he wants to date many other women?

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I thought being a batchelor just meant he has never been married.

 

I think a confirmed batchelor means he has never been married and has no intention of getting married.

 

But I have no idea what he meant by it. I would ask.

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Was having drinks with a friend tonight, asked him why he's not yet in a serious relationship its been a while. He said he's a bachelor.

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Was having drinks with a friend tonight, asked him why he's not yet in a serious relationship its been a while. He said he's a bachelor.

Yeah, that sounds like he doesn't want to get tied down and wants to date many women.

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Was having drinks with a friend tonight, asked him why he's not yet in a serious relationship its been a while. He said he's a bachelor.

 

Fifty bucks says George Clooney is his hero.

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bachelor is the socially acceptable term for "i like sleeping with different women"

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"Bachelor" simply means "single man". Don't read too much into it. (Although I realize that telling a woman to not to read too much into it is like telling a fish not to swim . . . .)

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Bachelors are smart men who refuse to limit his options.

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^^ what he said.

 

He's a man who's not looking to get married. The thing about relationships is that they don't often come when you want them to or think they should.

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I asked him this morning and you are all right. He wants to date loads of women and never get married (so he says).

 

He's just a friend, I wouldn't waste my time on a guy who thinks this way.

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Bachelor just means he isn't married.

 

I'm a bachelor, but not many people would date me.

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He's just a friend, I wouldn't waste my time on a guy who thinks this way.

Good luck trapping some other guy into marriage then.

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Im a bachelor....100%....I cant wait to meet her.....and I mean her...that girl, the one who wont change everything, the one who can think for herself...independently, the one who is beautiful even when she wakes up, even if she doesnt think so, the one who knows that a relationships isnt alway like a romance movie, soooo...that girl

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Ban divorce. Problem solved?

 

Wouldnt that be the opposite of the original thread though? Question was about bachelors.... Like dudes not getting married?

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As a bachelor I see myself as content to be alone for ever. I was in a committed relationship for a year with a girl who ended up behaving badly.

 

Bear in mind that all the relationships I see feature a very unequal power dynamic. Women think that they can make all the rules and have the man jump through all her hoops. Most men I know who are married will admit they are totally miserable. Most men I know who aren't married are generally happy. Getting married is a disaster for most men, as divorce happens in about 80 percent of marriage, and it is almost always filed by the woman, who then is granted literally everything.

 

Most bachelors, like myself, work very hard to get ahead and do not want to have their lives destroyed because the law is so unequal.

 

I hope that explains the phenomenon. It seemed like you were asking a serious question so I thought I'd give you my opinion.

 

Wish people would keep this attitude... until someone who comes and completely changes their thinking. Most people who marry, are settling.

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Im a bachelor....100%....I cant wait to meet her.....and I mean her...that girl, the one who wont change everything, the one who can think for herself...independently, the one who is beautiful even when she wakes up, even if she doesnt think so, the one who knows that a relationships isnt alway like a romance movie, soooo...that girl

 

Wow that's deep.

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This is a quote by mccandless:

 

So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more dangerous to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. The very basic core of a man's living spirit is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

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By posting the quote I don't mean to say wake up every day with a different person, there are so many diseases out there. But each day wake up excited to be with the person you're with. And if you're unhappy ,get out.

 

I vow to live this way. So when he said he's a bachelor i understood he hasn't met the right one yet. So perhaps its better to stay single.

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