sphynx Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 I was just talking with one of my friends about my recent ex (broke up exactly a month ago) and among others she said that I broke up with him. Up until today I thought he broke up with me, so now I'm confused This is the conversation we had when we broke up (by text!). Please keep in mind that he had managed to avoid hanging out with me for 2 weeks prior to this conversation, and that the day before it had been my birthday, and he had pretended to forget about it, even though he had made plans for us to celebrate it, 3 weeks earlier. So the day after my b-day, around noon, I sent him a text saying "I miss you" Him (2 hours later): "sorry for the delay in my answer but I was busy and left my phone in my car" Me (annoyed because he hadn't even acknowledged what I had texted him): "please tell me something, are you still interested in seeing me, hugging me, being with me? It doesn't feel that way lately...just tell me the truth whatever it is" Him: "you know what, I'm getting tired of you asking me this every time we talk" (I had never asked him that before!)... "this is not working...you want me to be different and I want you to be different...it's just not working out" Me (pissed off at this point): "I agree with you, it's not working. I deserve more than what you are giving me...You checked out of this relationship a long time ago, and now I'll do the same...It's over...have a nice life" Him: "I will...you too" Then 2 days later he called me for one minute to say he didn't want to end things on such a sour note (!), that it's not that he didn't like me or that I was a bad person, but things between us just didn't work out, and that he was never going to bother me again??? So please guys, tell me, who broke up with who? I thought he did, because he said first that "it's not working out", but my friend seems to think I ended it:eek:
geegirl Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Doesn't matter because it's not working out. Will it change "it's not working out" if you broke up or he broke up? Go through this all you want with a fine tooth comb, the end result is that it's not working out, mainly for him.
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