Only a small chance....???

[Desphwife]

Hi, I'm after some advice please?

My husband and I separated a few weeks ago. He said he wanted to go as he wasn't happy. I dug about and found he had been texting someone and had arranged to meet up. I confronted him and kicked him out.

A week later he came for contact with out son and we ended up in bed.

This week I told him that I knew he was planning to meet this woman this weekend and I he did there would be no chance, just so he knew.

Anyway he came over saying he had cancelled the weekend as he realised he wanted me back. Wentalked and agreed to date but stay living apart. We would also go to counselling.

All seemed fine til today. He has sent me messages saying he isnt sure this will work. He came over tonight as planned but said he felt uncomfortable. He didn't want me to kiss him etc as he said I would play on his emotions, despite sleeping with me no problem last week!!

He has said he sees only a small chance of this working, too much has happened in our relationship (ive had depression and was very up and down and quite abusive at times)

He says he still wants to go on our date tomorrow and go to counselling.

I cant help think he has already made up his mind...

I'm not sure what to think or what approach to take? Should still gonon the date or is it a waste of time? I can't guarantee hebisnt still in contact with the other woman tho I do have her number I don't think I should call her!

Please can someone tell me what i should do? I want him back, I know I've had the wake up I needed, I'm off the antidepressants, have been for some time now, I feel great apart from this...

Why would he say there is a small chance and want to do the date, counselling etc if there is no chance??? I'm so confused, just need some advice on what approach to take.....

[PrettyLady1]

Heres my thought. Just a thought..So now that he is out of the house and has more time on his hands maybe he's had the chance to hang out with this person, feel some kind of connection and so now he's just telling you he doesn't see you two working things out and getting back together because he's seeing possibilities with her? He probably wanted to go on the date and is willing to get counseling to keep the option of you open in case things go wrong with this person. Since its been a couple of days since your thread I am curious if you went on the date and what happened?