Pfiend101 Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 So this girl I've seen a few times here and there that lives in my apartment complex baked me a couple muffins the other day. I figure shes just bieng a nice neighbor. Two days later (yesterday) I find a note that she slipped under my door. It said she was glad I liked the muffins and made some small chat about our dogs. She put her # at the end of the note. Safe to say she's interested? lol
ladyinlimbo Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 Oh it's more than safe to say she's interested. Aww, how sweet of her to do this, don't you think? Go for it, ask her out!
Feelin Frisky Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 She's dogging you. If you like her it's there for you. If you don't, you may have a problem on your hands.
Author Pfiend101 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Posted May 20, 2011 Well... I've been seeing this girl I met off OKC. Been on three dates. But we aren't exclusive. My only thought is if something goes sour with this girl in my apartment. I don't hardly see her so if it didn't workout I guess it wouldn't be that big of a deal.
orion1010 Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 Well... I've been seeing this girl I met off OKC. Been on three dates. But we aren't exclusive. My only thought is if something goes sour with this girl in my apartment. I don't hardly see her so if it didn't workout I guess it wouldn't be that big of a deal. what she's done is very sweet. but what if you date her and it didn't workout? she would have access to you in ways ex's shouldn't have. she would be able to see you come and go with new women. she would know if you're home or not. what if she caused drama for you and someone new? left notes on your door, stopped by without and invite b/c you had someone there? these are all things to concider... For those reasons, if you do decide to date her, make sure you really like her before sex. She will probably become more emotionally attached if you have sex and decide to date others. Not all women are like that of course.
Author Pfiend101 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Posted May 20, 2011 Thx to all for the Excellent advice. That is exactly my concern. How would you feel if you were dating a guy and you saw him bring some other girl into his apartment? Do I need to tell her right away I'm dating someone else?
Author Pfiend101 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Posted May 20, 2011 I'm not good at this sort of thing. I need to step out of what is comfortable to me because that hasn't gotten me very far in the dating world. I definitely like the OKC girl. Enough for a relationship? Not sure yet. I guess it couldn't hurt to take apartment girl out for a couple drinks and see what happens.
alphamale Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 Safe to say she's interested? lol duh...i see a green light
SxB Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 So this girl I've seen a few times here and there that lives in my apartment complex baked me a couple muffins the other day. I figure shes just bieng a nice neighbor. Two days later (yesterday) I find a note that she slipped under my door. It said she was glad I liked the muffins and made some small chat about our dogs. She put her # at the end of the note. Safe to say she's interested? lol Yes, and stop playing it safe.
Sabali Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 I'm not good at this sort of thing. I need to step out of what is comfortable to me because that hasn't gotten me very far in the dating world. I definitely like the OKC girl. Enough for a relationship? Not sure yet. I guess it couldn't hurt to take apartment girl out for a couple drinks and see what happens. Done something very similar recently. You have to think about once things go south, which is very possible, having her around to be able to watch you every move in and out of your place. It was awkward for me to bring over my friend at first because I felt as if I had to always use the back entrance because I knew that my "neighbor" used the front entrance mostly. I can tell you as someone who can be an abuser of $#!++ing where he sleeps that situations like this is always a big gamble. There are only two times in my whole life where it has not come back to bite me in the @$$ in some sort of way and the most recent situation is the one above. The ugliest one was several months ago. I won't even go into it. Proceed at your own risk.
orion1010 Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 All these guys are telling you to hit it and quite it. maybe you should watch fatal attraction... ALL of you before you do that. lol.. (sorry, saw that move recently)... Guys, she lives in the same building as him!! She has access to him. Too much. it's not like she lives on the other side of town here. This could be a huge problem.. She likes him. she wouldn't bring him food and leave cute notes for him if she didn't. she seems very forward so far. Which is great if she lived even in the next building over... but trust me. my ex and i lived in the same building and wasn't easy for both of us once we broke up. Mark my words.. if he sleeps with her and it does not work out... one drunken night there will be drama.
Author Pfiend101 Posted May 21, 2011 Author Posted May 21, 2011 Just called and left her a VM asking her out for a couple drinks... We'll see what happens.
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