buranko Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 broke up 10 days ago, i felt it wasn't a clean break, we were still intimate on the night of the break up, she cried, said she loves me and will miss me etc, anyway, the reason for the break was due to some misunderstanding in my opinion. small issues which she took heart to . i started nc straight away, past 3 days, she started fb chat with me. i gave short replies like yes, ok, noted. today, she messaged me on the phone and after about 3 messages, she starts to mention about a movie that i promised to watch with her prior to the break up, she asked if that offer was still valid. its been only such a short time, should i take up the offer? i really would like to give this a 2nd chance. but i'm afraid meeting so early in this relationship would still trigger raw emotions.
0hpenelope Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 but i'm afraid meeting so early in this relationship would still trigger raw emotions. Buddy, that alone should give you the kick in the behind to let you know that meeting this soon may NOT be a good idea. She's not being fair to you, either. The movie offer can still be valid, but not right now. You need to clear your head before you start up a second chance that may just lend itself to a "make up/ break up" scenario instead of the reconciliation you really want.
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