siboo Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 Ok will try and keep this as brief as possible. I am 33, divorced for 2 years now. I have been online dating and been out with some nice guys but nothing I have wanted to pursue. The last guy I dated was different. I did like him, we both have children and he brought a big excitement to my life. We had an instant chemistry and we saw each other most days for 3 weeks and it was such a high for me, I was really happy. Anyway, unfortunately I didn't see a future with him for many reasons and upon talking to him about a few doubts we decided to part ways. Immediately I regretted doing that as I was so down when it actually ended but it doesn't change the fact that we are not supposed to be together. The problem is that was 1 month ago now. I cannot get him out of my head. We send a few messages here and there but he definately doesnt feel the same way as me. I am sure it is just infactuation, I loved the high he brought to my life, having raised 2 young children on my own and being lonely, this just was so exciting. The complication I have is that he lives around the corner from me so I see him all the time. His car has a unique sound and I find myself running to the window to look at his car and wondering what he is doing/going. I cannot believe that I am admitting this silly behaviour when I am an intelligent woman!!! I know time will heal but I just want to know if anyone else has been through similar and has any advice for me.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 The complication I have is that he lives around the corner from me so I see him all the time. His car has a unique sound and I find myself running to the window to look at his car and wondering what he is doing/going. I cannot believe that I am admitting this silly behaviour when I am an intelligent woman!!! There's nothing silly about it, you just like him, that's all. Like you said, time will heal. Just keep in mind that as each day passes it will get easier.
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