I don't know next. :/

[cupid23]

Ok so me and this girl have been talking for like 2 weeks now.She seems like she is into me,we are always teasing eachother and flirting.She has asked me to go to the gym with her.But we havent had the chance to meet up there due to her only having a free week pass.So anyways long story short i called her one day we talked on the phone for like 15 min and she said she would call me back but didnt do so.So i told myself i wouldnt call her or text her untill she looked for me.So after like 3 days she text me saying that she hopes i was good and that the heat are plying tonight. with a so i replied like an hour later saying im good how are you? and yeah i know the heat better win. But she didnt text me back.So i played the little game again and didnt text her either.I waited thinking she was going to look for me but never did. So after like 3 days i gave in and decided to give her a call.We talked on the phone and she told me that we should have drinks one day and i said we should have some tonight.She sounded really happy and told me she would really enjoy that.So she said she was going to do something than call me back.Well she never did.So i wasnt going to be a wussy and call her so i went out that night.I wrote on my fb that i was going out.So the next day she gives me a call telling me how was my night.we talked for like 20 min.Alot of good convo over the phone.Than she said she would call me back later.Will she didn't.I have always been the one giving her the call first so i decided not to sweat her.So the whole day goes by and no call from her.So i end up going out that night and putting it on my fb again.She than writes on my status.I hope you have fun buddy sorry i didnt call you back i fell asleep with a i wrote back to her telling her that she was a sleepy head and a dork. She teased me with saying that thats her word and i couldn't use it.That in the dictionary it said that she created it.I than teased her back and wrote that it wasnt her word and that the only thing it said in the dictionary is that she was the biggest dork in the world. She did not reply back to that comment.I as well didnt write to her,text her or call her.i was hoping for her to look for me but nothing since than.It has now been 4 days since us communicating.So me just thinking that she didnt want to keep the convo going in public that thats why she didnt reply.Well anyways after 4 days of us not communicating i ended up giving in today and calling her.It rang 4 times and no answer.I didn't leave her a voicemail.She knows my number.I have not yet received a call from her.Now im stuck and dont know what to do? Damn i hate these freaking games! Now what? All these ideas are running through my mind now.Like what if she didnt get the call or it was out of her reach (but she had to get the missed call) or what if i was on the phone and she called but she got my voicemail.Idk im confused and sound like a pussy right now lol Do i stop trying to get in touch with her untill she calls me? I dont want to sweat her and be a wussy. Any advice please???

Edited May 20, 2011 by cupid23

[Datura]

Ask yourself why you are chasing a female who has said she would call you back on three occasions, but never followed through. In doing so, she also left you hanging concerning a date. You are letting her get away with this by brushing such fickle behavior off.

[cupid23]

I know i know i totally agree with you.I should of never looked for her after she didnt call me back to have drinks.Not to mention she went out that night with some of her friends cuz she posted pix of her going out.Im just going to put my foot down and never call her again.This situation always happens to me because im always giving in to that type of behavior. :/

[Datura]

Good. Next time don't take peoples crap. Either remove yourself from the situation, or stand up for yourself/tell the person off (civilly), and then cease the pursuit. Lesson learned, no more self blame.

 

Greener pastures await.

[cupid23]

Will do! Thanks for the advice i appreciate it.