Balance11 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 (edited) Girl I've known for over a year now she can be shy and emotionally inward, big emotional set of armour thicker than steel she seems to wear. One of her friends asked me for my number to give to her so i did and after about 3 months i told her i liked her but she said she was flattered but wasn't looking for anything at that time which was fine, but she kept texting me, We started getting close, once got drunk on a night out, she asked me to come she her at a bar, then when I left to see my friends she kept texting me to come to another bar she had gone to, I eventually did and later we went back to hers, shared her bed together, nothing happened apart from a bit of cuddling, things got a bit weird but went back to normal. Not long after i asked her if she wanted to meet up and go out to the cinema or somthing like that and she said yes and seemed happy and excited about it. We went out for the day together and had a good time, she seemed happy but again things started to go down hill. Desite this i asked her to meet up again and she again said yes but on the day she said she couldn't, with the way things had been going I just assumed it was an excuse and decided that she wasn't interested in me anymore and started to try just being friends. Yet for the last 5 month at least we've text each other everyday throughout the day so i was alittle confused. I was texting my friend telling her about the recent text's between me and this girl because my friend said she would give me some advice, however the text I was meant to send to my friend I accidentally sent to the girl I like which it was about, this was the text said: ''She's eventually replied to me and the convo was wasn't great not snotty, just kinda normal and she kept putting xx on the end whereas I put none and I'm not sure what to think about it anymore, though I'm happy still'' She asked what I wanted her to reply, so I just told her nothing the text wasn't meant for her. We didn't talk for most the next day till I decided to man up abit and bring the issue up again. It seemed like she was trying to avoid talking about the text, I brought it up saying that the text made things awkward between us and I didn't want that, I just wanted to get things straightened out properly because it was pointless talking if it was just going to be awkward all the time but she never replied. Its not like her to simply stop talking, she'd either evade the whole topic and talk about something else or she would answer it and then move on to something else. She's always on facebook now which she never used to be but still she isnt talking. I've never felt like we were just friends, we've never referred to each other as friends, she's pointed out to close males as her friends before but never me Even though she gave signs of interest mentioned at the top, should I take her evasiveness as her saying not interested ? Should i give it more time and see what happens or should i call her and explain ? She is shy so i dont want to be to upfront and make her feel awkward but i dont want things to be superficial like before Edited May 19, 2011 by Balance11
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