quietGuy13 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 How do you meet women for friendship and possible Relationship? I have proved that facebook sucks for making new friends. NObody wants to talk to strangers, they just use facebook to talk to friends they already have. If you're lucky you can make a friend but that's rarreeee. And when i approach girls in bus stops etc, they all think i'm a rapist ( they don't say that but i'm sure that's what they think )and they don't want to keep in contact and they lie that they do. Moreover since I have problems with speech i sound more like a weird unnatural so they may thinki i'm stupid. So if Internet searching and public places are out of the question, then what else is there? Some people have suggested "take a class" . But what does that help? I'm still gonna be me with speech problems and all the women think i'm stupid/weird cause i don't sound like typical guys. It's just like at work, all these outgoing talkative girls , when they have to approach me because i have some materials that they need to do their work, they turn quiet and do their stuff....I say something slowly and softly , they just answer or whatever and then they leave and go back with the loud mouth guys and they are so happy and start talking alot with them.
tb24 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 If you're trying online surely a dating site would be better than facebook?
somedude81 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Have you considered getting speech therapy? If you can't talk like a normal man, women won't care about what you have to say.
sanskrit Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 You will find more meeting going on on MySpace than FB. Try that. Also public transportation is not the best place to approach strange women, as they are worried about being followed, etc. On the weekend, go to the trendy area in town and hang out outside, experiment until you find areas where there are lots of women.
surfrider4284 Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Invest some serious time/money into getting speech therpay. Virtually all speech impediments can be corrected/greatly improved. You are getting all upset over a problem that CAN be fixed. Just fix the problem. Once you fix the problem, I bet your confidence will increase, and your approach to girls in public will improve. ****, you at least go up to girls in public..I know plenty of guys, good looking, "normal" ones at that, who have too much approach anxiety to even go up to a girl. You already have a leg up on them...just get the therapy to help you fix your little problem.
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